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myLot reputation of 91/100. teena22 (205)   ranked 5,494 out of 5,830 in friend2 months ago

you saw your friend's bf/gf kissing another one. and you don't want your friend to get hurt, of course. would you tell her/him? or rather wait for her/him to find out?


i would choose to tell, no matter how hurting.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 79/100. cautionhot01 (174)   ranked 760 out of 5,830 in friend   2 months ago

Me, too. It would be devastating to her if I did not tell her sooner. Because she is my friend, I don't want her bf/gf cheating on her. I would tell her and helped her until the healing process.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. Adelida2233 (765)   ranked 2,825 out of 5,830 in friend   2 months ago

I would also tell my friend. In a lot of my friend's relationships though, I am friends with both of them, so it would be hard. I do not believe in cheating, period. There is always the option of not doing anything, so I really don't understand cheating to begin with. Back to your question though, even if I were closer to the friend doing the cheating, I would still confront them(later, not while they are actively engaged in the cheating).

I would give them the option to come clean to their significant other first, and if they didn't, then I would do it for them.

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3. myLot reputation of 86/100. gracelee114 (143)   ranked 1,707 out of 5,830 in friend   2 months ago

To tell he immediately .I think he or she will be injured sooner or later if his/her partner loved another,better tell him and ease his pain,otherwise he will be hurted more than now.....

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. tammyr (3325)   ranked 28 out of 5,830 in friend   2 months ago

I would have to tell as well.
HOWEVER always know that when you tell a person something like this, unless they are a very close friend, they will most likely get mad at YOU.

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5. myLot reputation of 92/100. longbangod (1045)   ranked 1,760 out of 5,830 in friend   2 months ago

I wont tell him. Because I might be the one his girlfriend is kissing with. lol

Well I think they have to discover it themselves, I really dont want to interfere with them even if they are my friends. Perhaps I would just ask my friend, if she/he really love his/her partner. Maybe he/she is also just fooling around or kissing others alsorasp, what do you think?


myLot reputation of 92/100. longbangod (1045)   ranked 1,760 out of 5,830 in friend  2 months ago

...and besides, it might just a friendly KISScool


myLot reputation of 93/100. honeybeemay (230)  2 months ago

hmmmm...really Long! ... lol..
I know truth hurts but yeah if she/he is really my friend then I would tell her.;) .. no matter what..;)

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6. myLot reputation of 83/100. adoremay (591)   2 months ago

I will. By hiding it, I am giving her an additional pain when she will find it out.

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