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81network (9)4 months ago

My friend just get married this morning... she get married with someone she didnt know at all... The Man have been choosen by her family.. Shes afraid how it will be their future.. Can their live happily?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. gloreymay (662)   4 months ago

if both are willing to work it out and learn to love and respect each other i think they will be happy.


81network (9)  4 months ago

thanks... but ill take time ist... i think it such a difficult thing to be done since u dont know each others ist?

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2. myLot reputation of 72/100. everlasting (9089)   4 months ago

I started a discussion on arranged marriage or love marriage more than a year ago. Surprisingly, many of those who said arranged marriage lasts more than love marriage actually practice it. they said the relationship lasts because both parties worked hard to make it work. Since your friend is already married to that man, they should work it out and their communication should be open so that they will get to know each other better. honestly, i do not want this arrangement for my kids!


81network (9)  4 months ago

thanks... yeah.. that a right choice maybe its good t do arragement.. but ur child will suffer maybe..

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. smartinah (786)   4 months ago

I don't agree with that way of marriege arrangement that your family will choose who will be your life time partner,how can be it work if even you don't know each other and you don't love each other,I think after a year of getting married to a person without knowing him after all it will become not happy ending, well it depends on the persons attitude and I hope that your friend will learn to love his husband.


81network (9)  4 months ago

yeah thats true... she talk until shes crying.. i dont know what to do and say.....

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. siZidni (412)   4 months ago

well.
it's scary ...
didn't she have the chance to do ta'aruf first?
well actually in my family..
my parent or big family offer some one for me..
but they don't push me to choose if i don't like it.
so it's an option though..
well if i choose the one they offer.
i still have to get along with that person first then i decide i will marry her or not.

 
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