How do you deal with someone lazy in your life?
By marchgale
@marchgale (260)
United States
May 20, 2008 3:44pm CST
What if you always ended up working more,and making sure things got taken care of?And one day you realized it's always going to be this way.They always have an excuse for why they don't look for work,and most of the time it's your fault because of an automible situation or what ever.But the funny thing is you can always seem to find work and ways to get money.And they are more than happy to just lay back and let you do it.Well when you finally realize this won't change would you cut off the extras to make not working less cozy for them like cable tv and internet.And what ever aren't basic needs for living.Would you figure that keeping a roof over their head,the lights on,the water running and food is all your doing from now on?
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@Remembering1996 (2219)
• United States
22 May 08
I know a guy who lives up stairs from me and he works the same place I do but on day shift. He has a brother who is I think 25 that lives w/ him and his brother when he first moved in a yr. ago worked 3 jobs a couple weeks each one and quit. He now just sits home and does nothing while his brother who works where I do get's up everyday for work and breaks his tail to make ends meet. I have talked to my friend about it but he just says "I don't know why he does it" I told him "that's your place and you need to put your foot down that's not right of what he is doing to you" all he says is "I know". It just urkes me for his brother has no care in the world and at times I just want to get in the middle and say "get a job you and help your brother out who is so nice as to have taken you in"
I guess he will never change and my friend will eventually ( hopefully get's tired of it and forces him to or make him go back to their parents house. ) He was like this at their parents house and they got sick of it and they never got along well because of it so he asked my friend ( his brother ) if he could move in w/ him now he's doing it to him now to grrr...
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@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
20 May 08
A lazy person should not live in comfort. Show he/her the front door. The bible says by the sweat of your brow ye shall eat bread. A lazy person is not a considerate one.
