Do you have an accountability partner?
@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
United States
May 21, 2008 5:52pm CST
This would be someone whom you can confide in when you need to be honest with yourself. They would do the same as well. It could be your spouse, significant other or a best friend. If you don't have one, would you consider someone you know to be an accountability partner to help you in life.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
25 May 08
My fiance is the one I count on the most as he is always there for me to make me laugh when a rainy day comes... I can always count on him to talk to when I get stressed or confused on something. He explains somethings to me when I don't get it, and I'll do the same for him.
I also love him with all of my heart and soul.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
25 May 08
haha that made me laugh. We are actually sitting near each other in the same room doing mylot together as we have a laptop and he is using his parent's computer... We do talk to each other but he knows if it's important to message me and i'll respond faster...
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@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
25 May 08
myLot "Keeping couples together through posting" :) Best of luck to you both.
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@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
26 May 08
Yeah that is true lol we are sitting within ten feet of each other mylotting together,but if I want a faster response from her I have to send her a message.
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@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
24 May 08
My fiance is my accountability partner because I can tell her anything,without her judging me and she always will do anything to help me,and I trust her with everything I have and I love her with all of my heart and soul.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
25 May 08
Yes I do, I know that he trusts me and loves me...
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@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
25 May 08
I'm glad you have somebody like that, a rare find indeed. BTW, does she know that?
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@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
25 May 08
Thanks,and I know she is a rare find,and I am lucky to have her,and yes she knows I trust her with everything I have and that I love her with all my heart and soul, because I tell her that everyday.
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@angelface23 (2494)
• United States
30 Jul 08
My friend Steve is my accountabilty partner. He always keeps it real with me and keeps me in line. He is my bestest friend in the world. I don't know what it is about him. He always tells me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear.
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@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Now that's somebody to trust, glad you have somebody like that.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
20 Aug 08
I don't have one specifically. But I have a child and now more then ever I have to do things with integrity. I never want to do anything I wouldn't want him to do or find out about.
What about you - do you have one?
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@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
20 Aug 08
I do, its my wife. We are honest with each other since we only have each other.

@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
22 May 08
I dun have one whom i can really tell all my problems too.. But i do have some good frenz whom knows some of my problems here and there.. THough as much as i just want person to really know all my problems, but it will be hard.. Because my frenz has got different level of understanding things.. ANd if possible, i will really want a partner or fren whom i can really confide in ^_^
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@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
22 May 08
It takes a huge amount of trust on your part and absolutley no judgement on theirs. A few friends a different levels can also work, just as long as they know the importance of listening and understanding. It doesn't mean that have to accept what they are told, it just means that they listen and let you reflect on what's been done.
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@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
22 May 08
Busniess is a trust with funds, maybe your own, maybe somebody elses, and its better to know that you can trust their actions and allow them to confide if they think they've done something wrong.
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@wayz12 (2059)
• United States
22 May 08
To be honest, I don't think I have one that I'm completely honest with. My hubby is the closest that I can think of, but to tell the truth, there are things that I will not share with him.
I would love to have one though, one that I can totally bare my soul and would take me and everything I do, with no blame, no criticism, no judgement.
However, since I'm such a private person, he/she must be a very special individual.
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@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
22 May 08
It takes a while to find one, and maybe you never do, not to say that if you're looking for one it won't happen. Its a hard thing to give up part of yourself to someone who you hope doesn't judge you. Its true, it has to be a very special person, usually when you're married its that person because anybody outside that circle becomes a trust issue with yourself.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
18 Aug 08
Im rather lucky I have my husband who is everything to me and my best friend in the world that I know I can tell and talk to about anything. They let me know when Im just wrong (or so they think.. lol). We are open with each other, I can go to them and they can come to me about anything. Like I said they both mean the world to me.
@shewolf52002 (1214)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Well I can and do tell my husband anything, but he wont keep me accountable to say my diet or my goals. Does that make sense? He will say do what you want and not worry about it. I think I could use someone in my life to give me a good kick in the pants every once in awhile! Wanna be my accountability partner, well virtual one anyway? 

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@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
30 Jul 08
My husband would be mine...he's the one person I tell everything to, and I respect his opinions and what he has to say, if I have to make a decision on something, I know I can be my honest self with him, and I try to do the same for him.
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@eagle_f15 (1827)
• Malaysia
22 May 08
My husband is my accountability partner and I am glad he is.
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@sisterjinx (1135)
• United States
22 May 08
I guess I would say my husband is my accountability partner. We share everything with each other. We talk about our opinions. We talk about whether we are not seeing the whole picture. He lets me know when I'm not being a very spiritual being or when I'm not being the person that he knows I want to be and try to be. I do the same for him. So I guess that makes us accountability partners.
@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
22 May 08
It does, you're right about that aspect. Sometimes we feel shame and if our trust isn't 100% with our A.P. then our actions will speak louder than we can ever confess quietly.
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@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I don't have one, I think all my friends are my accountability partner. I tell them everything well, even if I don't, they knew there's something wrong with me. But if I have to choose one, I would say my friend Ollie. He's from UK, and we have been chatting for almost 2 years, though we only see each other through cams I felt like he always have answers o everything, he's my shrink!lol, I can tell him everthing and he always boost my confidence. he's one of the best one can ever have.
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