What were ur instant feelings when u came to know u r going to become dad/mom

In all honesty it was a mixture of extreem fear, joy and sadness.
But most of all joy, i was scared i was going to loose my identity and my freedom being a youngish mother also i was scared of the stigma that would be attached to me, scared of what my family would say etc.
But most of all the excitment and joy was overwhelming, the thought that i had a life inside me was just spectacluar and nothing could ahve dampened my excitment:)

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before checking to see if i tested positive, there were some signs and symptoms so i was hoping for it to be true.
when it was confirmed, it was immense joy, sheer happiness. when i found out later that it was a boy, words couldn't describe my joy.
i'm not trying to be biased or anything here so don't get the wrong idea. i was happy because in a selfish way, it's my thinking only of course. but over here, they say that if the first born is a son and is similar to mother then it's a good thing. if firstborn is a daughter and similar to father, it's a good thing.
of course, i wanted my first one to be like me. hehe selfish of me i know but that's how humans or rather i am. grins

When I first became pregnant, I must admit it did take awhile to sink in that I was a mommy. I do not think it really sinks in for a first time mother until the day the baby arrives. Even when I had my daughter the ultimate shock and feeling of being a mom did not sink in till I took my daughter home from the hospital.