how did your family support you through the difficult times
By adrico
@adrico (204)
China
May 28, 2008 12:04am CST
every one had met many difficulties when on the pace of life .but at the times of disasters or exreme difficulty ,family members are the first you can think of or the first come to help you...
In your experience can you share something to us about your family support when you are in trouble.
3 responses
@chivolaski (969)
• Philippines
28 May 08
my relatives never spoke about it or mention it when they're with me. i dunno if they care or not, or they were trying not to discuss about it when i'm around. but i appreciate that no one ever asked me about it coz i don't really like getting the feeling when people think i'm troubled. i only ever talk to my best friend about it. but when one of my friends found out, she would always try to bring it up whenever i'm with all of my friends! f%$# her
, i'm sorry i just really don't like her!
, i'm sorry i just really don't like her!@adrico (204)
• China
28 May 08
hehe from your words i can guess you are good at doing thing yourself.and you have a the ability of self-governing.i think this habit you form when you being a child.you relatives don't mention it just because they believe you can deal with it ... am i right?????
@zhpshql (693)
• China
1 Jun 08
Yeeh, my friend, this is a good discussion.
All the time I think my family is the best supporter for me.
In China, most students live on family, even they have already past the adult line --18years old.
For me , I can earn some money , I want to live on my own, but sometimes it's diffcult. Every time I need money, My Mum will give me some, I'm 22 years old, I feel guily ,,but my Mum said that she would feel guily if I don't use her money, as now I am a student.
Now the only thing I can do is to love my parents.~~
@adrico (204)
• China
1 Jun 08
thanks Z for the comment to this discussion,hehe..yeah i really agree with you,i china ,in our country most student dont have these ability to take care of themselves,this phenomenon i think is really astribute to the overidulge form our parents and the relatives ,we can say we are really spending our happiest time because of it...now it is time for us to face the difficulities ,we believe we have the ability to deal with them by ourselves,coz we are adults,we are over 18...
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
31 May 08
Yes, you are right as they say"Blood is thicker than water" in times on need your famlily is always there for you. I know this to be true. I am disabled and live on a very fixed income. I have one sister that sends me money ever now and then just to help me out.Once I needed a car, My mother and father bothe gave me money for it.The house I am living in my Mother sold to me for 10 years at $150. a month. It has been paid off for years. She wanted to know I always had a roof over my head. My family has helped me so many times I can not even name them all. I really do not ask unless it is necissary, but I know I can always depend on them, If I have too.My family is very supportive. Everyone in my family has offered to let me move in with them for free, but i choose to live alone.
