I Never Been in a Relationship Before.

it is common for many people too. it is not sickness. You just have to overcome it... there are things you can do to help you try start a conversation with people, especially girls you are interested in. why dont you make friends more with girls that you dont like, romantically speaking and they can help you a lot of times.

you forgot to tell us your age. shyness is not a "sickness" or even a "problem." I dont see it that way. it is natural. some people have learned to handle shyness well and so we thought that they are not shy, but at the core, they are. now that you admit and become aware of this shyness, try to observe yourself talking with your mom, sis, or any female friends. what do you talk about? bring the "talk" to any girl. start with anyone, and not with the one you like. then, practice the talk. goodluck and best wishes!

first of all its good you know the weakness you have. just get rid of it,. initially just speak very light talk,. it will ease you out.

Hello,sdas86. I do not know if you have analyzed the reason why you become so nervous when with girls. They just the same as you as being mankind. So I think there's nothing to fear. Just take it easy and try to make friends with them. If you are act kindly and honestly towards others, they will act to you vice versa. Just be brave!

No worries bro... I used to be just like you... It's not a sickness... your shy because you keep thinking what they are gonna think about you. The way I overcame it was to talk to girls and keep in mind that I'm talking just to be friendly. Removes a lot of pressure on what to talk about. If you talk to her thinking that your gonna say you like her then chances are your gonna freeze up. :) Just be yourself and remember to breath hehehehe. Get to know her as a friend first. It's good to be friends first.At least that's what I think. Does anyone else here agree that being friends first is better that rushing to it?

hmm... don't be shy man... just think that she is like a man, but still we have serve her as a girl... i think you need to be confidence... may be you can join your friends when they have a conversation with a girl... for the first step, just hear they having chat... try to be familiar with the situation... next, when they are talking about a topic that makes you interested, just join the chat... don't worry man... just remember : don't be shy... [sorry for my bad english] \(^.^)/ ciaayoo...

There is always a first time for everything, what you're facing now is not the incapability of verbal communication. But you fear of woman's rejection, what you need in here is the bravery -, but must be the right bravery-. You may start from the very source of your nearby environment. Your mother, your sister, your relative who's a girl. Spend more time with them. This is the first step. Second step is to find as many female friends as you can. If you fear to start it alone in a woman's group, you may ask your friend to join in the group. But choose your friend who 'really likes to talk'. Learn how he starts the opening from your friend, the more you encounter the session the better you get from his experience. Next is your trial -alone-, you should take this trial, if you want to step to next phase. Start a communication, don't worry if the first time, they feel your topic is quite boring, don't feel small-minded or ask her if your topic is boring. Just let it flow, always use your brain. Re-evaluate what you've experienced from several starter communication with those girls, and filter which should be out and which shouldn't. The last phase is the woman you want, but don't feel you're stuffed with those experiences. At least you'd done the flesh. If you feel being rejected, don't pull your emotional back. If she's not the one, don't push hard on yourself. There will always be the better girl. It takes time, you're still young. Use your time wisely. Many field needs a communication to become a leader. You're the one who's on the way for it. Always keep learning and learning. Good luck.

Girls feel shy too, so you should focus on making the girl feel happy by talking to her, rather than on how you feel. Don't forget that girls are just people like the rest of your friends. Try to be friends with a girl, she may like you more than if you try to be her boyfriend. Friendship can develop into love when you get to know each other better. All you need is a little more confidence in yourself. I'm sure you are a really nice guy. There are some girls who really like quiet gentle men, so don't think that being shy is always a bad thing.

Why do you think this a problem i too am quite a shy guy my self and find it very had to communicate with someone ,but i seriously don't care much about them anyways. I have never been in a relationship my self and I keep myself allof from the opposite breed ,May be i am shy but i love it this way and it's just the initial talking which requires some amount of encourage other wise I can sweep her of the feet with my talks only. Try some drinks and talking I almost proposed a girl and guess What i asked her sister to tell her that I like her.