What kind of advice to you give to someone when they .....

Any one who cries for advice is just plain spoiled and deserves all the punishment that they are looking for. I am not saying this is the right assessment of the situation but it certainly sounds as if someone wants to get punished otherwise there would be no opening up.

It is not cool and I certainly wouldn't condone it. I would ask why they did it. Boredom? What. Don't be judgemental and it will be much easier for them to talk about it. You don't have to agree with what they did to listen and be a friend.

QUOTE!! You cheated on your partner, and now they're upset? Well of course they are!!! You were a jerk for CHEAING, just like they would be a jerk, were they the one to cheat on you. What kind of person cheats on a partner, and then gets upset when they get upset? I know that sounds harsh, but that's how I feel. Those two are better off without eachother.

I might be saying ' NICE JOB '. Naah, i'll tell her not to do it again. And crying doesn't change anything. They should think first of what might happen if the partner find out bout that. Cheating is just not accepted. Just imagine that they've been cheating by their partner? Ain't it hurts? And i always told my friends - what goes around comes around. Altho you're ex's were cheating on you before, don't do it to someone else*your current bf. Because your ex's will get the same thing someday and your current partner didn't deserve what your ex's did to you. Just don't cheat:) It's hurt.