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myLot reputation of 85/100. martindale (115)2 years ago

Is it bad to move often with your children, even within the same general area? Why is stability valued so much as as part of childhood. I stay in one place years for my children. It has never been important to me to live in one spot. In fact, I'm easily bored by staying in the same place. I often wonder how our childhood shapes the way we live our life more than we think. The way we grew up sets the tone of what we believe we should do. I always felt like I lived out of a paper bag. Oh I went to the same school, but I laid my head whereever I happened to be and was fine that way. Unfortunately, my children act like I'm pulling teeth to move across the freeway because they have to change schools, not the district, just immediate friends. I go out of my way to take them to see the friends often, but the one change I can't make is where my business is located. I have a lease. I also have 2 rental houses across the freeway, as I didn't wait to sell to buy. Do any of you find that is an unusual way to live? In fact, after a year hear, I feel the need to start looking. I am looking to move the business too, as soon as the lease is up. I'v been looking. Is this just the way I am or is it conditioning?

 
 
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kitty2 (907) response was accepted on 6/20/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. kitty2 (907)   2 years ago

We moved a lot when I lived at home. It was not easy for my sister and myself. It was like living like "no bodies". maybe it is harder on girls, I'm not sure. But it became a very insecure feeling, and we both ( we are identical twins ) became extemlley shy, which lasted for years. We felt, until around 30 years old,that we didn't "fit in" anywhere. It was awful.


myLot reputation of 85/100. martindale (115)  2 years ago

My brother and sister moved a lot as they are 6 and 9 years older than me. They hated it. I always thought it would be cool to move a lot.

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