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myLot reputation of 95/100. drsparkle314 (178)   ranked 904 out of 23,121 in relationships1 year ago

Some people would probably raise their eyebrows after they've read the title of this discussion... but c'mon I know some people here are players... some are self-confessed... others are not... this is not a discussion to criticize you guys... it's just out of curiosity... I just want to find out the reasons why some people would rather fling, play, whatever you call it... rather than stick to one relationship and give it your all... everything and everyone has reasons... I'm sure some even have stories behind it... so what's yours?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. cryw0lf (740)   ranked 597 out of 23,121 in relationships   1 year ago

Some people are just insensitive (obviously dont realise it, so im not having a dig at anyone). But some people just don't realise that playing people leads to hurting them. They generally do it for a bit of fun, or because they feel lonely etc, but never because they love/want the relationship.

I've never played a person, and never will, i've only had one boyfriend, and im hoping it sticks that way. I couldnt imagine hurting someone just for a bit of fun.


myLot reputation of 95/100. drsparkle314 (178)   ranked 904 out of 23,121 in relationships  1 year ago

I'm glad your one of those who doesn't like playing with the hearts of people... your boyfriend is lucky to have you...

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. vermillion (341)   ranked 480 out of 23,121 in relationships   1 year ago

If you are the type of person who wants to enjoy life, do crazy things and is new and open to every possibility, then you are or might be a player.

One may never have everything that his/her partner wants, so when they find it in another person, they get attached, interest3ed and the rest is up to them to have a relationship or not. It's really not about the act of "playing", it's about satisfaction, gratification, and excitement. As long as players take care of his/her partners and no one gets hurt, then it's fine by me.

Being a player can either be a problem or a solution. Some are smokers, alcoholics or players...Everyone has a downside(^^,)


myLot reputation of 95/100. drsparkle314 (178)   ranked 904 out of 23,121 in relationships  1 year ago

That's a very interesting answer... thanks... it made me think about this topic with a different perspective...

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. Gesusdid (1457)   ranked 3,489 out of 23,121 in relationships   1 year ago

well that was somewhat of my life a bit, by i was sorta naieve and young trying to think as if i was a player like my friends cause they would tell me stories and things like that, but i dont intend to go into that lifestyle anymore or ever ...right now im just a 1 woman man and loving it every day, sorry i had to kill the mood in this conversation lol


myLot reputation of 95/100. drsparkle314 (178)   ranked 904 out of 23,121 in relationships  1 year ago

it's ok... I'm actually happy for you... you probably find the right one for you to turn your world around like that...

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