have you ever felt that you already want to give up?
By kaezy_kulet
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
Philippines
June 13, 2008 3:44am CST
things are so complicated,so many quarrels,misunderstandings..did you ever felt that giving up and breaking up is the solution for everything? yet you love them and you cant bear to lose them..love is really complicated huh? what do you do when you have felt like this?
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11 responses
@Zergonipal (807)
• Poland
14 Jun 08
I think that fighting to the end is the best solution. Untill there's a hope and love noone should give up. Cheers and happy myloting.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
Yes I think it happens to everyone who is in a relationship... even marriage couples are not all made in heaven.. I call it life this is part of being in love getting in and getting out of it... What i can only tell you that any problems make it simple not complicated... problems is part of being a life... it is better to feel love then not feeling it... I think a thousand times or even though it hurts i will ask for space for a month i guess with no communication first... really being alone.. I'll go and talk to God to give me more strength and guide me with my decisions.. If ever i'll set it free it is really for me it will be mine and that will be forever. God be with you!
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
Its really so complicated. Sometimes even if the solution is already in our feet we are still afraid to accept it. MOst people say that "no I can still handle it, i love him blah blah." I hate those reasons specially when they still knock on your door and tell almost the same problems! WHat a he*k! Why not just accept the fact and be brave!
I know I shouldn't say these things since I might be in thier shoes one day but for sure if it happens I will accept it even though how hard it is. That's the reality of life! And to tell you I was almost there before, I once told myself that if he won't change I will leave him even if it hurts bad. Luckily he did change. But if not I will really leave the house. It will save me from mysery and headache a lot.
@ynigz1 (472)
• China
14 Jun 08
Maybe sometimes break up is the solution, but not to everything. Don't be so easy to break up things. I believe people can being together happily, if they reallly put they heart to maintain their ties. No matter how opposit they are, once they are love each other, they can be together, and can find the way to be happy. Wish every couple can find the way to being happy with each other.
@lanyoublue2008 (882)
• China
14 Jun 08
Yes, Sometimes we have to give up the love, because which take up so much our enegy,we have to give up and work and study hard, I don't like the love affect the other part of life!
@kekexinfeng (1295)
• China
13 Jun 08
There are many things in our life that are bored or we don't want to do or we coundn't do them,we will think to give up,yes,i often have that opinion,and when ithink this i feel upset and gloomy,then a peom will recall the sun,that is:youth,i want to share this youth with you.
youth
Youth is not a time of life,it is a state of mind,it is not a matter of rosy cheeks,redlips and supple knees;it is the matter of the will,a quaality of the imagination,a vigor of the emotions;it is the freshnesss of the deep springs of life.
when i think this,i will be happy and will go on.
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
sometimes i felt that. But when i use to think of it. I never quit because i don't like. I know my limitations.. Love doesn't mean were always happy there where times that we have an arguements. Think about this, it really help your relationships grow stronger!
@maquisa (316)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
yup!even thou how painful you will feel,with the quarrels and many words that said you should give up,giving up means you lose or you didn't fight for it but because you love yourself most and you don't deserve to be hurt.Give your self the freedom of letting go of someone you is such a junk and *sshole!this might ruin your personality and thinking about love and family,it's better to give up ang let go that to stick to it with so much pain in your heart!
@thing17 (106)
•
13 Jun 08
Hi, Yes, sometimes we feel Love is complicated because we are bored of quarrels, misunderstanding and yet you can't afford to loose whom you love.
You know, sometimes we are blaming others or your love one for the quarrels and misunderstanding that has been ocrurred without checking ourselves. We need to check ourselves also, maybe we get angry because we did not get what we want or what we want did not happen. Check first why, put yourself in his shoes (meaning as if he/she is you) and meditate why it happens.
Love is not complicated, If you have your Bible check 1st Corinthians 13:4-7, you can find love. Have a good day and God bless!
@chubzlife (95)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
that's a pretty hard question. ;)
in my previous relationship, it was just complicated. it was a long distance relationship as he was working in another city and sometimes goes to other countries for assignments. i was so in love with this person and i thought then that i cannot live without him. eventually things became rough, and i felt that breaking up would be best for the both of us. we both love each other but we just think that we can not handle the situation (being far from each other). if we continue our relationship, it would just jeopardize our friendship. we don't want that to happen. we value the friendship. that is why until now we are still friends. and i think that breaking up was a good decision after all.









