away from the family or staying together?
By juhi06
@juhi06 (1850)
India
6 responses
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
10 May 11
Hi. juhi06. I have lived with my birth family for many years. I am now living with my husband and three kids. We have been on our own for almost, two years now. I hope that we will continue to be this way too. I think that you should be spending your time enjoying life and not stressing living with family members that can get on your last nerves. Having your own place to live is very fun and exciting. It will make you feel as if you are independent and you will feel like an adult too.

@taiwanlife (745)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
No.Since I was in the primary school,members of my family come and go in search for a better school especially when finally one goes to college.I was even earlier to move out coz I had to study in an arts school at least 12 hours away from home. Now, that all of my siblings including me are all working and most of them married, we just got used to being separated from each other.We just have accidental reunions from time to time. Those rare times of gathering together though are so priceless and much savored.We just know for sure on the other hand that it's suffocating to be living together.
@antony2best (583)
• India
15 Jun 08
i'm living with my family.i'm only 16 tears old and i'm not old enough to be living alone
@naseeha (1382)
• India
15 Jun 08
Yes we live together in a joint family and i am loving it. It could be very helpful and fun.
It would be difficult for you if you have just moved out of a joint family because you would feel utterly bored. Try and make new friends and mingle with your neighbours too to keep your time occupied. But be careful when you make new friends.
Have a great time 

@shilpa_p (198)
• India
15 Jun 08
I had to move out of a joint family system 3 years back because we were ill teated there.We were literally just thrown out like garbage.But now,i feel liberated.I get to live my life like i always wanted and so does my family.Its very difficult paying bills and all the expenses but we manage somehow.
@honeydew82174 (1720)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Your family is your support system so of course your going to feel odd. I would do the things you enjoy. Go for a walk, listen to music, go to the park. There are lots of things to do. Make a list of things you want to do and maybe include your family if you are lonesome.




