Friends are supposed to love eachother!

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I am tired of hearing he said she said stuff. I feel like I am in friggin' high school again and that's the least cool thing ever!If you're friends with someone, then when they're low on money and you help them out, it's NOT something you bring up a month or so later and say they owe you money. You are their friend and if the situation was turned around would YOU want them bringing it back in your face? The only reason I can think of is if the person said that they would pay you back, but haven't yet. When you're friends with people, and you hear something scandalous about yourself or something that they said, why do you conclusions have to go straight to that they were against you? Why can't it be like "Oh, there's a misunderstanding homehow" and calmly confront the person in a non-accusational manner saying that you're confused because you heard whatever it is. I hate seeing friends be the first to jump at eachother's throats about something they think eachother said about them. MOST drama caused in a close group of frineds is caused by a misunderstanding and a person's insecurities OR a guilty concious! If you did something wrong, why not just take up for it? Like if you did something you know you shouldn't have, and you're a little embarassed by it; when it's brought up instead of getting angry and cursing other people around you, why not just be like "yeah, I'm sorry that was dumb, oh well get over it!" and for me personally, I'd rather my friends who messed up admit it and not try to cover it up rather than be mean about it. But mostly, it's all misunderstandings! People are good natured and some people react a lot of times by saying things they don't mean. So if someone calls you a bad name, they probably don't REALLY think of you that way, they were just angry and responding to their anger about some OTHER misunderstanding or their own malicious intent to get back at someone that was responsible for yet ANOTHER misunderstanding!Doesn't ANYONE give anyone the benefit of the doubt these days? Or help their friends out without asking for something back in return? What's the point of a friendship if you're going to deman out of them more than what you give to them? it's give and take and while there's a lot of giving people out there, they can all only be so giving before you've used up all your freebies and then you've lost a friend. So let's all just LOVE one another and quit accusing people of things that happened long ago, or just recently and if someone's sorry for what they did, FORGIVE them! and if someone did something wrong and won't admit or apologize to it, and you probably shouldn't be hanging around such types of people anyways. They give off bad karma! they'll bring you down!