I've seen some Men who died without Wife or Partner, why?

@salonga (27775)
Philippines
June 18, 2008 2:14am CST
I don't wonder about some women who remained single all their lives because nobody courted them or no good pick from those who did. But what about the Men? They are the ones courting and the first step to a relationship starts with them. What could be the reason for remaining single. I know of a Man in our neighborhood, he is handsome and earning quite a sum but to this day at lates 50's he has not married and no opposite relationship either. I just wonder why?
8 responses
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
i think it is their own choice..sometimes they had experienced something that they think that it will happen to them again just like your post about the old woman in the bus..or sometimes they have loved someone in the past but they have lost them and they can't continue on and love again..
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
yes that could be possible..^_^ i have heard many about promising that they will never love someone else.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
That could be possible, he must have been broken-hearted and swear not to love again.
@cyntrow (8523)
• United States
19 Jun 08
He might be gay. And he might have a life's partner that you just don't know of. Gay or straight, I would hope he has someone to share his golden years with. I imagine he's just private.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
Your guess is as good as mine! Yes, I hope he has someone to share his love and wealth with.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Some ppl just have no desire to get married...and just because you personally have not seen this man with a partner (male or female) doesnt mean he doesnt have one....maybe he does and they just like to remain extremely private about it...
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
Oh maybe! For after all I don't see him 24 hours a day. You have a good point there.
@DarkDancer (1011)
• Dayton, Ohio
18 Jun 08
Oh well there are any number of reasons that he could still be single. Perhaps he's shy about women who are dateable. Perhaps he is waiting for a woman to make the first move. Perhaps he is gay. Perhaps he has not met the right woman yet. Perhaps he has met the right woman, but for whatever reason she was unavailable. Perhaps that's just not something he is interested in. The best way to find out would probably be to ask him, thought that might not be politic.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
I asked my husband instead to ask him coz he might just think I'm interested with him. Know what when asked? He just smiled and changed the topic.
• United States
18 Jun 08
I know a lot of older single men. Most of them have been in long-term relationships with people that they intended to eventually marry. Sometimes, the woman decides to go a different way. They could have different plans for the future (one might want kids, the other not; one might want to move across the country to pursue a career, the other might not want to join). He could be gay. He could be too quirky to find someone to 'put up' with him. He may be too involved in his career to find a woman. He could be a widower or a divorcee. He could be living comfortably 'in sin' with a woman. I think the possibilities are as numerous as there are people in that situation. Ask, if you're curious.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
Yes, it could be one of those you mention and nobody knows except the person. My husband already asked him and he just smiled and changed the topic. Ha!ha!ha!
• India
19 Jun 08
Some may feel its better to stay alone than getting married and being Tensed at everything. There are also some people with less confidence levels who might think they're not capable of getting married and thgey have no faith in themselves that they can be dependent and support for their Family.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
You are right! Your points are well taken!
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
19 Jun 08
maybe he is not meet the right person for him...he needs to move to another area with similar people to whom he would like to marry since the people in his area are not to his liking...
• United States
18 Jun 08
Some people are loners. Some just never found the right woman. Some just plain old do not like woman. Why dont you ask him why he never married? My husband would die without me. If I pass before he does , he will die of a broken heart.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
I'm too shy to ask and afraid as well, he might think I'm interested with him. Of course not, coz my husband is a thousand times handsomer than him. (ha!ha!ha! just jokin')