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myLot reputation of 96/100. drsparkle314 (178)   ranked 886 out of 19,205 in relationships 4 years ago

Is it hard for you to say goodbye? Why? What's the hardest goodbye moment you experienced?

I was watching the final episode of a Japanese drama and it was the part when the main character is about to leave the school, her friends and her special someone... it made me recall how I had to say goodbye to some people in my life... both temporarily and permanently... it's hard... I couldn't help but cry in such times... it's like I'll never see them again or I'll never be with them again... well not at all times it ends that way... sometimes there are possibilities of being with them again... but still it is really hard... because you know you'll feel the loneliness for quite some time... yet someone somewhere will catch you and make you smile the same way someday...

 

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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. optimisticgrl23 (337)   ranked 16,535 out of 19,205 in relationships   4 years ago

I think that saying goodbye is always hard but I find it easier if I can make plans to see them again. This way I do not feel like it is a goodbye so much as a see you later. It might seem silly but I have never cried when I said goodbye to someone that I had plans to see at some other point. The trick is to make the plans a definite things instead of just saying you will do something.


myLot reputation of 96/100. drsparkle314 (178)   ranked 886 out of 19,205 in relationships  4 years ago

hmmm.. good point...

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. Ranie19 (389)   4 years ago

Actually for me it depends on the situations. If I have a chance to see him/her the next day or the other day or it's not that long until I'll see him again I think it's okay and it's not really hard but if it means that you're leaving and it will be your last chance to see that person it's really hard because saying those words means you'll never see him/her. Especially if that person means so much to you.


myLot reputation of 96/100. drsparkle314 (178)   ranked 886 out of 19,205 in relationships  4 years ago

yeah.. like saying goodbye for good... it's really hard...

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3. myLot reputation of 73/100. knight_rlc26 (334)   ranked 2,468 out of 19,205 in relationships   4 years ago

its hard to say goodbye specially when you shared for a long moment. That, you'll be missing those memories. the sleeples nights and sometimes heartaches. that is why its is hard to say goodbye...


myLot reputation of 96/100. drsparkle314 (178)   ranked 886 out of 19,205 in relationships  4 years ago

yeah... specially when the time you spent together was taken away in an instant...


myLot reputation of 96/100. Ranie19 (389)  4 years ago

yah!!...I hate saying goodbye.. it really hurts me so much... like now... wahhh...


myLot reputation of 96/100. drsparkle314 (178)   ranked 886 out of 19,205 in relationships  4 years ago

you mean you just had to say goodbye to someone just now?

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. xxjinx8xx (885)   4 years ago

for me it's really hard to say goodbye.. when i hug that person i intend not to let them go.. i almost cry when someone is leaving or go to overseas, it's like that i cannot see that person anymore.. you know what, it takes some time or days to overcome about it lol, i'm always thinking about the memories that we had before, the craziness, laughter etc.. it's also like i lost a friend or family... so corny but it's true.. hehe..


myLot reputation of 96/100. drsparkle314 (178)   ranked 886 out of 19,205 in relationships  4 years ago

no it's not corny... I can relate with your feelings... well I had some friends who went abroad and when we had their despida it was so painful... we can still talk through the net but it's different than when you know that their just around anytime you want to see them...

it's the same with my parents... well I practically lived all my life away from them... but when we are together then they had to leave again it's still so painful...


myLot reputation of 92/100. xxjinx8xx (885)  4 years ago

yeah presence is important rather than talking over the phone or the net..

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