when do you say to yourself you over and done?

Philippines
June 20, 2008 10:15am CST
just day before yesterday i decided to free myself from hurting so much for loving the person so much but the person i am loving dont seems to care...he deliberately hurts me by saying things that he could not do... b4 any misunderstanding we are not couple or steady but we had a few dates adn i like him a lot or should i say i really fell for him apparenlty he dont seems to feel the same way...so after months of hoping that it will turn out good i told myself to stop and move on with mylife... what about you??share your thoughts...thnks
3 responses
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
21 Jun 08
You went on dates and you fall in love but this person doesn't have the same feeling. This is what dates does. If you see yourself go on four dates with the same guy and he doesn't ask you out again that is the end of it. Or you sure it is love and not infatuation. He hurt you because he does not respect you and doesn't want to be with you and you are forcing the issue. Leave this guy allow and continue with your life. He is not interesting. Don't you have friends that you can go out with or maybe there are things that you enjoy doing before this guy comes into your life. Well go back to it. Forget him and move on.
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• Philippines
27 Jun 08
waht if he dont forget me at all until now he visits me and we still commnicate but i really dont know what we are....kinda hard and weavy to bear everytime
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
good day... I could say it's over and done when there is no love and no future to look for forward to.
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• Philippines
20 Jun 08
yeah i really do agree with you...that is the reason why ibroke up with my 2 year bf a year ago...not becoz of out of love but becoz of what future holds us...kinda complicated though thnks for sharing
• Romania
21 Jun 08
I believe that You made the right decision.Unfortunately this kind of decision is not an easy one to make, as it influences all our life.
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