Why does the men allways pay at first dates?  |
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 I mean, of course its nice us to pay, but most of the girls here, really takes it easy, now I have a gf and of course she pays when she has money, and sometimes she pays for me too, and then when I have money I'll pay for both etc.
But allmost most of the time with girls, and friends I know, ALLWAYS pays for them, I mean I really find selfish for a girl not to pay her part at first dates or don't say anything at all, I'm not getting mad about the $ coz you do what you have to do to get a girl, but I really would think nice of a femal person to stand up and say she will pay her part, I would really consider her worth my time!
Whats your opinion about that?
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1.  cream97 (5857) | 5 months ago |  Because it shows respect for the woman.. It makes a lasting impression.. It looks odd for a woman to pay, not unless she insists on paying..
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2.  jonesy123 (2233) | 5 months ago |  It's just an old fashioned way to go about it. The girl was asked out, the person who does the inviting pays. It's just a sign of emanzipation that girls started to pay their share even on a first date....
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 CrashO (469) | 5 months ago | didn't know that, nice answer! | |
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| 4. mtgrlz_zerocool (618) | 5 months ago |  it's odd that girls spend a lot of cash on expensive clothes, jewelry, perfumes, hair-cuts and stuff like that so she can look good to a guy, but she wont pay for a hamburger or a soda. of course it's nice that a guy pays. it shows attention and care. i'm a girl and i don't pay a lot of money on clothes and girl stuff and whenever i go out with my boyfriend i pay if i have cash and if he has cash he will pay or maybe we'll make 50-50. it really depends. but girls pay:D
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5.  babostwick (1578) | 5 months ago |  I can't say for sure but it could have to do with being a gentlemen and it's not meant as anything malicious. If that happened and she said she wanted to pay, I can respect that wish. That's what I've learned anyway and that's how I could look at it. I've never had a situation like it saying she would but I wouldn't be opposed to it.
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| CrashO (469) | 5 months ago | yeah, i know that, but lets say she says "i pay for mine" and then you insist and its okey you'r a gentlemen, but nowadays were I live, they expect to buy you expensive drinks and say nothing!!:-\
atleast "thank you for a nice meal/drinks" would be nice, I mean yes men must be gentlemen, but they sure have to be equal right?:p doh!
an date its not for only the men to see how the women will be, its viceversa! | |
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| babostwick (1578) | 5 months ago | Yeah that would be nice to be appreciated for it. I can agree there. If the situation happens, I wouldn't put up a fuss about it. I usually don't put up a struggle with it. If she wants to pay, I'd let her and that would be it. | |
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| 6. SomeCowgirl (2878) | 5 months ago |  Traditionally, a man always pays. It's just gentlemanly. A lady who does not make a fuss about it is only keeping up her persona. It would look bad if she'd asked to pay her half, especially in a public place. Also, most times, a woman doesn't know whether she should ask or not.
My fiance doesn't have a job and didn't when we first met. He never once asked for us to go out to eat, but I would take him out to eat and pay for him. He would refuse and say he was not hungry when I knew he had to be starving as we had been out the whole day together. Eventually I stopped asking out of respect for him.
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| CrashO (469) | 5 months ago | yeap, good for you!:D
men does have an ego!:D | |
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| ucancallmedissy (2486) | 5 months ago |  Ugh, I didn't mean for the picture to appeared here. I was uploading this picture for another response I was making. Sorry.
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| 8. MagieL (233) | 5 months ago |  it is an old fashioned way,i go out with my bf for the frist time,he paied for me.but now when we go out i often pay for mysilf,and sometimes pay for him.i think it shows fair.^^
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| 9. situskeren (45) | 5 months ago |  Because he want to give nice impression at the first moment they get together in date.And because He is a man.
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| 10. 458507220 (5) | 5 months ago | you paid,just because you are a man
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| CrashO (469) | 5 months ago | that's mean, were is the equal right here?:P | |
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