Love... is that enough?

Yes, when I was 21 years old, I'm so loving the partner,however, now I don't think the love is all of life which give me so much hurt! Now I think the friendship is more important for me which gives me so much warm!

I have always believed that love is never enough in a relationship, simply because love is too general and too broad that it fails to see the the details in our reality. Since I said that love is not enough for a relationship here is what I think it needs: Trust, Friendship, Satisfaction and Dedication. Well If my partner cheats on me I really don't know what will I do but sure thing is that if ever she will do that I will listen first to her reasons and if I know that she doesn't love me anymore, then I will surely find a new love.

No, I don't. I don't think I would be able to stay with someone I loved if they cheated. I would not be able to trust them. I learned the hard way you can not stay with someone you can't trust.

No I don't love him the way I used to. I more think that we have develop a friendship more now than an intimate relationship. We have been through some difficult time in our life and it is good when the love is not there any more we can settle for something that we are comfortable with. No I rather put an end to it but he is the type that you have to be in another country for him not to find you. That is the type of person he is. I think I enjoy the friendship so I will continue be there until I find a person who I can love.

Maybe, if I am in that situation I will ask my partner why did he cheated me?? Of course, I want to know the reasons so that I can decide whether to break up with him or not. If the reasons he gave me is reasonable maybe I won't break it up with him, I will just let him choose whether which one of us that he would like to be with.. I will accept no matter what is his decision... If he chooses me, then I'll stay with him but then if he chooses that girl then I'll live.. I think that is the best thing that I can do... I cannot force him to choose me because I know that I am just fooling and hurting myself. So, it is good to hear from him even though it is hurt for as long as I know what is true..

If this happens, I think I will put an end with my partner. The most important thing between lovers is not only love, also trust. If he cheated me, I would hardly trust him again. So I think we have gone to the end.

It doesn't matter how much i loved him if i couldn't trust him i would not be able to stay with him.