"Is there life after separation/annullment/divorce?"

My husband was married and divorced a number of times, befure I came into his lie. I had neer bee marrid or divorced. Now we are married, and we are so happy to gether. He had some things to sort out, but in he end love conquered all.

My mom decided not to fall have another relationship after her failed reconciliation with my father. According to her, she has a lot of things to focus her attention too like us, her children and her grandchildren. I think the decision on how long you must remain single is when the pain subsides and you have fully forgiven yourself and your ex-hubby or your ex-partner. It will be unfair for the new partner to be in a relationship with you if you are still in the process of healing and won't be able to heal totally eventually. If I were to get a new partner, it is really necessary that he accepts everything about me and my past and that includes my children. We are a package so he can't have me without having my children.

I can't answer your questions because I don't experience being divorce or annul, I don't even have a husband but I have only a boyfriend.. =) I will answer your question based on my opinion and to those people who I have known this kind of situation.. I agree that that there is a life after separation/annulment/ divorce.. Life will continue even you don't know what will happen.. For those people that I known with this kind of situation, they are forced to have a good and happy life for the sake of their children.. They will do everything just to make sure that the children will not find difficulty in the present situations.. They will explain to their children why that things happened and they will help their children to accept it.. I think there is nothing wrong to fall in love again and to be married again for as long as you know your responsibility to your children.. I think if that person really loves you then he/she is willing to accept all your past life and most of all your excess baggage..He/She will accept it no matter how hard it is.. Of course, when you fall in love again and get married you will know do the same mistakes that you had done before.. You need to make sure that you will do everything just to make the relationship work.. Because if the same thing happen then you are not the one who will be hurt so much but also your children...