I don't like the way my parent take care to me

Vietnam
July 2, 2008 4:15am CST
I really the way my parent take care to me .They alway think me a kid,they try to prevent me from work and activities ,they try to protect me . When we talking,they alway tell me about social evils,they alway think that there are many many dangerous things outside and they warning me anytime . I really feel happy and free when I study in unversity ,away from my home .And u? how about u parent? do they treat to u like that or they let u think and act independent? Tell me about ur way to escape from this case.I don't like they consider me a kid
2 responses
@donsky14 (5990)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
lol..well, were kinda the same. My parents are strict as well. Cause Im an only child, and Im a girl. They don't let me go out that much, especially if its an overnight thing. Imagine, I'm already working and they still treat me that way. Anyway, yeah, that doesn't mean that i'm left out...haha..sometimes I escape. I'm for graveyard shift and sometimes me and my friends will plan a vacation thing or a swimming or something like that. I'll file a leave for work ...my parents will think that I'm at work, where actually im with my friends I don't really do it all the time. And i do feel sorry for doing it...its just that my parents won't allow me if i told them. I've always been protected...so I just do that kind of thing for me to experience the things that I haven't experience, and make sure that I'm responsible with all my actions.
• Vietnam
2 Jul 08
Oh,I'm a boy,strong and I have power to over anythings.But U see ,nothing can change parents . So what do u do to escape from this case
@donsky14 (5990)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
hmmm...I usually file a leave at work so that I could spend the night with my friends or boyfriend to go out in a swimming or something like that. Cause I'm not really allowed to go to stuff like that before...so now what I do is I file a leave and I go with them.
• India
2 Jul 08
Parents are the only people in the world who really care for you (The most).Their love is exceptional and uncomparable. It is true that some parents care more for their kids, they want to give the best to theie children and they feel like that, It is more common for 1 childed parents. Just like that don't feel bad, they the only people who suport you at all points of life, have a helthy relationship with them it is always fetching. Well when it comes to me i am the only child to my parents and they are the best people in my life. they are responsible for my achivements(I am not sure about the spelling). I have seen this type of problem in my cousin who is also a 1 childed person so it is a bit problem but u need to adjust and go onnnnnnn. Think positively.
• Vietnam
2 Jul 08
I try to think positively but I think I old enough to responsible for all my action . I want to think and act in my way ,I need support,advices from family but not the protection and take care to all even thought smallest things . Thank for response but it better if u give mesome advices to solve my trouble with parent.