Did you ever fall inlove with your bestfriend?

Philippines
July 2, 2008 9:37am CST
Have you been inlove with your bestfriend and can't voice it? Your thoughts...
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@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
2 Jul 08
hmm I had a crush with my bestfriend. And he also had a crush on me but our other girl bestfriend was deep in love with him. So the love triangle made it complicated. I prefer have them both as friends and I have a bf anyway and we've been together for 5 years :P But I don't see anything wrong with dating with your bestfriend.The only thing that could be dangerous is that the date between you two gets bad. Not only you will loose your bf but you can also loose your best friend...if you know what I mean.
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• Philippines
2 Jul 08
ladysakurax, i got your point, girl. it's really hard to fall in love with your bestfriend...especially if the feeling is not mutual. but if you're willing to take the risks, go on. but then again, as you said, you might lose both your lover and bestfriend if the relationship didn't work out...i knew it...coz i experienced it myself...
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• Philippines
14 Jan 10
i have a bestfriend since high school. we know each other for so many years. i know how playboy he was and he know how i am too with my boyfriends before.. my family known him as great barkada to me and i am very open to his parents too. but after some years.. we ended up falling inlove with each other because of a mistake that we don't both expect. something happened between us..and it was done because we are both drunk that night.i felt so bad and for so many days it made me so sick thinking that it happened where we don't really expect it.. i use to consider him as a brother to me. i share even deepest secret to him because of the trust and he too.. i thought we can both forget and finally move on after those accident.. its been a month that i force myself not to think of him and ignore what is entering to my mind. i was confused the following days why we act unusual to each other, we are acting like there is something. i tend to ignore because of the fear that our other friends would misunderstood us.. i am thinking of so many things which probably be the ruin of our friendship.. but it gets harder each day, the more i hide, the more i despise my real feelings is the more hurting i received.. i didn't know exactly that what i felt is the same with his.. we decided to build relationship right now and a lot of things kips on bothering me. im so afraid that we cannot hav the friendship anymore if ever our relationship won't work out..but i feel so happy because i can feel that we both love each other this time. i realize that somehow its an dvantage because u know each other already, u dnt hav to make adjustment because thre's really a strong foundation between the two of us..oftentimes, we talk telling each other..''bka ikaw na ung karma koh, sa dinami dami ng mga minahal q dati, kaw lng pala hinahanap q''..until now i can't believe how i fall inlove with my bestfriend. my bestfriend who turn out to be my boyfriend.. im still needing advice, is it right for bestfriends to enter into relationship???
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@juhi06 (1850)
• India
2 Jul 08
hi dear when you ha e your best friend perhaps you lo e her/hi or few of his qualities thatis why you are frie dly with her or hi so it is natural that you lo e ea hother
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• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Of course I was in high school when I've got a crush on my best friend. He didn't know it even if our friends tease us because we are so close with each other. Until we graduated from high school and gone to different schools for college. My feelings for him got stronger and we still see each other during our free time or during weekends. And even up to now he doesnt even knew it. Besides we have our own lives now. it has to remain a secret even up to now.
@annavi23 (6633)
• Philippines
3 Jul 10
i happen to have a girl bestfriend same gender as me,but no,i never get inlove with her...heheheh well,there's another one i happen to love before he came to be my bestfriend. i really loved him before we even got friends.that's how fast it is.... we fell in love first before we even have been bestfriends. yeah,now,we live separate lives,just as fast as that...:(
• Malaysia
3 Jul 10
i've...wuu..that sooo....silly feelings that i ever felt...in love with single bestfriend (it's okey). in love with in a relationship bestfriend...(thats what i mean...silly feelings)
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
NOPE! because he is a guy like me. LOL sorry... itjust happen that we are both males. hehehe
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
30 May 10
yea.:) i always do.. lol
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
oh yess!!it's soo hard to admit cz ive got nothing to do with that!!i cant even stand myself why?!maybe its just that he's soo nice and sweet at all!!oh god!!that was my weakness in such a guy!!how could i stop it when i even cant get rid of him!
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
I had that experience before sure it wasn't easy girl. I had this best friend of mine for a very long time and had been very in love with the guy secretly. Why I kept that affection a secret? That is because I wasn't hi type and I know it! But things are better now because my feelings for him is slowly fading away. The only surfacing feeling now is honest friendship and that is what I really just want to remain. If you think you got chances together then go and try how far you would both go. But if you think that nothing would happen and the friendship would just be lost then just keep the feeling to yourself. it would fade away eventually but of course not easily. Time would help and proper mind setting. I'm no expert but experience is teaching me how.