when can we put the blame to life itself? / myLot

Philippines

July 2, 2008 2:20pm CST

i hve read countless articles blaming life for thier misfortunes and suffering...thet think life put a big joke on them... i really dont thnik that we can blame life for whatever is happening to us..life is a choice it is not like spoon-feed thing that you can just accept what i offers first.. what you think guys? thnks

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aprilsong

@aprilsong (1884)

• China

3 Jul 08

i think some people are born good fate,while others have bad fate,no matter how they struggle. sometimes i think god is really unfair to some people.at this time,i will comfort myself,there are those people who are even poorer and having worse luck than me.but since we have come to this world.we should try to cherish our life,no matter it is good or bad.

@petiksmode (2983)

• Philippines

3 Jul 08

i do understand you but i never did i came to the point that i see God as being unfair...i live by the rules of everything happpens with a purpose and there is a lesson that we ought to learn that is why God allows certain things to happen.. thnks for the thought

lilaclady

@lilaclady (28206)

• Australia

3 Jul 08

I do believe in fate to a pointbut I think we do have to comtrol our destiny as well, I also believe positive thinking can bring better to our lives, I guess you could blame a few things outside of your life as an influence...

@petiksmode (2983)

• Philippines

3 Jul 08

yeah we really come to a point that we put the blame in things or people around us not realizing that though they or it influenced us it is still us who made the dicision and solely responsible...maybe we do this to lessen the guilt and pain that we feel if we encounter failure