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myLot reputation of 95/100. cher913 (7805)   ranked 141 out of 26,068 in life2 months ago

the post that was posted earlier about a 5 year old having to watch her weight made me think and wonder if just the simple pleasures of being a kid is a thing of the past?

remember the lazy summer days that you spent as a kid? now kids are at summer school, enrichment camps, academic camps, soccer school and whatnot

they are worrying about making the grade, being fat, low self esteem...are kids ever just kids anymore?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. teison2 (4591)   ranked 3,867 out of 26,068 in life   2 months ago

It is getting to be far too much. Kids cannot live on a tight schedule all the time. Kids need some quiet time, some no program time, some use your imagination time. Withe everything being so organized and scheduled we are depriving kids of their childhood. making a 5 year old worry about her weight is horrid. A five year old should feel she or he is enough just by being themselves.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. Sillychick (1668)   ranked 140 out of 26,068 in life   2 months ago

It is sad, really, that people just don't allow their kids to be kids anymore. They are competitive, and push kids to achieve at such a young age. They also want to take away things like leaving cookies for Santa (or believing in Santa at all) and the Cookie Monster because of obesity. Yet these same parents who complain about these negative influences are picking up dinner at a drive thru. How can they blame Santa or the Cookie Monster for obesity? My son has never had fast food. He eats lots of fruits and veggies every day and actually prefers them to cookies. That is not because of the media- it's because it's what I feed him and teach him. Just like obesity is not because of the media- it's because of what parents feed their kids and teach them. Sorry, I went a little off topic there.

Anyway, I intend to allow my son to experience all the joys of childhood and not push him to grow up too fast. I will not sign him up for 15 after school and summer activities. I will let him lay on the grass and look up at the clouds. I don't sterilize his environment or keep him indooors because he might get hurt. I let him explore and learn the same way I did when I was a kid- the way it's supposed to be.

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3. myLot reputation of 88/100. catfish57 (593)   ranked 4,409 out of 26,068 in life   2 months ago

it could be,maybe not.if you let them be kids then they will be.

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4. myLot reputation of 12/100. Mainframeguy (161)   ranked 18,342 out of 26,068 in life   2 months ago

Yeah - my daughter is. It is down to the parents to give them the childhood they deserve. I never encourage mine to grown up - in fact I probably act childish with her rather!

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4744)   ranked 23 out of 26,068 in life   2 months ago

The unfortunate thing is that parenting

is learned by making mistakes on human beings!

I wonder how many parents that have their child on a diet

at 5 will rethink that decision when that child is 20 or

30 and starving themselves!

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6. myLot reputation of 70/100. hiccup (4462)   ranked 4,236 out of 26,068 in life   2 months ago

We blame the kid for a lot but in truth us adults who are the problem.

many of the things the kids do or say it came from us.

Gee, we are such a smart lot.

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