Is it easier with a stranger?

United States
July 4, 2008 11:44am CST
Is it easier to do kinky acts with your patner or someone you don't know? Maybe I want to try something REALLY new or REALLY weird. That is exciting to me, but I think that there are things I want to do that might ruin my relationship. There are some things I just don't know if I want to experience with my partner. Have youever wanted to do something one might call "too taboo"? What and would you do it with your partner?
2 responses
@rpegan (596)
• United States
4 Jul 08
I wouldn't ever do anything beyond my partner's comfort range, and I expect my partner to have the same respect for my comfort level. As far as exploring things that are in the realm of the kinky and strange, I'm really not opposed to much. I'm willing to experiment, and I'm not really bothered by doing so with a stranger or a trusted partner. If you can't talk to your partner about kinky things, who are you supposed to talk to?
• United States
4 Jul 08
Stretching the comfort range in a relationship can be bad. That is exactly what I am talking about. I am not very conservative in my "comfort zone" some might call me a bit of a liberal, lol. Do you ever get the urge to surpass that "zone" and do something that is just completely outrageous? Something that you KNOW would be too much for your partner to handle?
@myahw20 (1115)
• Canada
4 Jul 08
I like sharing everything with my partner only. I don't really like the idea of doing this stuff to complete strangers. It's a fun thing to do with your partner and it might even strengthen your relationship and add spark to it.
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