what do you do when your spouse is sick

@AnnaB7 (756)
United States
July 5, 2008 5:51pm CST
do you wait on your spouse extra or let them sleep in or what. My spouse is usually sick when there is little money I think there is a relationship between these things.
3 responses
• United States
5 Jul 08
I care for my spouse 100% when she is sick. When she is under the weather I do everything for her, but when I am I still do for myself. The difference comes from our upbringings, I was raised with you take care of yourself attitudes where she was raised with a dad that got babied for everything. So I baby her when she is sick. Thank you for the good discussion and have a great day!!
@AnnaB7 (756)
• United States
6 Jul 08
I think my husband was babied some too, when he gets sick he seems to want me to do everything, But he does do a lot for me when I am sick to, so what's fair is fair right/ The only bad things is when we are both sick at the same time.
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• United States
6 Jul 08
Ouch that would be rough if you were both sick. But I think that you may have misunderstood MEE. I do not mind taking care of her when she is sick and she tries to take care of me but I do not let her as that is not how I was raised. I think that it is great that you both take care of each other, truely 50/50. Thank you for the response and have a great day!!!
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• United States
18 Jul 08
Thank you for the Best Response!! HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!
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@fwidman (11514)
• United States
6 Jul 08
I try my very best to do whatever needs to be done for my lovely wife when she is not feeling well I don't guarantee that I do things even half as well as she does, but she seems to appreciate that I try.
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@AnnaB7 (756)
• United States
6 Jul 08
She most likely does even if she does not say so, I know I appreciate it when my husband is kind to me and helps me especially when I am not well.
@Emma30587 (402)
6 Jul 08
Your partner is more than likly sick due to stress. Does your spouse get mirgrains or anything like that? When my partner is sick I let him do what he wants to do. If he wants to have a kip on the settee then thats fine, if he wants to go to bed then thats ok too. I let him do what makes him feel better. Of course I help him if i need too or if he wants me too. He suffers from mirgrains which usually make him be sick too so when hes in bed I always give him a glass of water and a few painkillers.
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@AnnaB7 (756)
• United States
6 Jul 08
yes he takes lots of headaches, and he takes pain medicine for that, i think he has a lot of stres at times.