is't better to open up about what u feel to u'r friend or just keep it up..?
By rave700
@rave700 (247)
Philippines
July 6, 2008 9:40am CST
..there have been many times that i been falling in love with my closest girl friends..however it's really hard to open up to them because for them your just friends..and for me i don't want the friendship to be ruin just because of that...so i just keep it up and try being friend to her...do you think that's a good idea?
4 responses
@Gargoyle0134 (1257)
• United States
6 Jul 08
I keep most things to my self.-Friends are for short visits or to see a movie with? But I try not to unload emotions on them.
In my experience, it is better. If you argue later, anything you have said can be used against you! LOL!
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
Well I say you should open up your feelings to them because you might regret it if you don't do it now. Just be sure of what you really feel for your friends and be brave enough to tell them what you feel. If they are really your friends then they would still stay as your friends even after you've revealed your feelings to them.
@krayzietam (832)
• United States
6 Jul 08
I think it all depends on how close you two are. Do you two have a good communication line? Are you able to talk to her without reservations, besides this topic of course lol. I think those are a couple of clues of whether to bring the topic up or not. Its great to only bring that up if your friend isn't seeing anyone. At least you wouldnt be ruining her relationship or it may end up pretty awkward for you. In some situations it doesn't really hurt to bring the topic up because if you guys are really good friends then you can work it out.
