if ur love hurts u

If my love hurt me then I'll try to understand it and forgive him.. I will talk to him and tell him how I feel so that he would know the pain that he cause me.. I don't want to make a decision without listening of his reason why did he do that.. Maybe, his not aware that he hurt me or he don't mean it.. I will always give him a chance to speak out and give reasons... I split or break up isn't the right thing to do when your love had hurt you even it really breaks your heart.. Try to talk about what happened , try to understand (be open minded), and most of all try to listen carefully.. Think very hard first before to end up into a decision because sometimes when we decide we don't used our brain but only our heart.. I always give second chance to my bf when ever he hurt me but of course, when I know that I shouldn't give him a second chance then I'm not going to give it... I always think it first before doing the action...

I think it's only our love themseleves who have the right to hurt...it forms part of love to bear pains...but if that pain is due to betrayal then one should not bear this pain as it becomes poison and love no more exists...in love, their exists little fights and it's a wonderful feeling to bear these little pain for it deepens love in a relation...:)