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MizzRandi39 (34)   ranked 4,943 out of 7,729 in cats1 year ago

Ok, this might be a little long, but bare with me...About a couple of months ago, I was in a major bind and needed a place to stay, and my bf at the time offered to let me stay with him but he would not allow me to bring my cat with me, apparently because he had his own cat there already, and could not have 2...So, I asked my best friend to watch my cat for me, just until I found a place of my own, and then I'd get her back. I was at my bf's house for 2 months, and I tried almost every day to call my friend and check up on the cat, left messages and all that, and she never got back to me. Right now, I have found a place that is decent, and I can have my cat back. I finally got a hold of my friend, and she said that she would bring my cat to me....Well, that was 2 weeks ago, and I am still waiting. Every time me or my mom calls her, we get her voice mail, and leave a message, but she never returns our call. We know the cat is fine, but it is really getting frustrating. I want my cat back, I have been without her for 2 months, and it doesn't take but 2 seconds to pick up a phone and tell me when u are going to drop my cat off. I don't like this, but theres not much I can do..I don't have her address either, or I would just go and get my cat myself...and I am having a hell of a time getting hold of her to ask her for the add. All I can do is keep calling, and hope she answers, but she never does!! BTW...she knew this was temporary and that I would eventually want her back..What do I do????

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. mcat19 (1024)   ranked 40 out of 7,729 in cats   1 year ago

It's strange that you would leave your cat somewhere you didn't have an address for. I would think you'd like to visit the cat.

You can do a reverse phone number search online. Just put the number into Google and see if that works. You can try calling in the middle of the night; someone should be home then.

She has already said she'd bring the cat, but hasn't. I don't think you will do well on the phone. I hope the reverse phone number thing works for you.

Loads of luck.


MizzRandi39 (34)   ranked 4,943 out of 7,729 in cats  1 year ago

I already know the phone number, I just didnt get her address becuase I wasn't in touch with her much and couldn't visit her because I was in PA...I could not visit my cat, because at the time, I had no choice of where to stay at and my bf offered. I am disabled and use a chair and he had 3 flights of stairs to get up, and it took 3 pple just to get me up there, so there was no way I could even visit my cat...Trying to check up on my cat by phone, was my only option. I can't do an address or phone search cuz she uses a cell. I asked her to watch my cat, because I knew she would take good care of her for me, but I honestly didn't know she would keep me waiting like this!


myLot reputation of 90/100. mcat19 (1024)   ranked 40 out of 7,729 in cats  1 year ago

I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. I guess all you can do is keep trying to call her. Good luck. I hope you get your kitty back soon.


cherylsousa (38)   ranked 7,247 out of 7,729 in cats  1 year ago

I dunno. I feel for you. It just seems slightly odd that this woman is your "best friend" but you don't know where she lives?


MizzRandi39 (34)   ranked 4,943 out of 7,729 in cats  1 year ago

I know, but the reason I don't know exacly where she lives, is becuase I couldn't call her on a daily basis because it was Long Disatance for both of us, so she ended up moving when I was living in PA, and then when I went back home, I did call her, but just never got her add because we don't see each other alot, but we used to talk all the time...Plus, we both have our own lives now, and sometimes pple just don't keep in touch as they should.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. patriciaqualls (4606)   ranked 266 out of 7,729 in cats   1 year ago

I am so sorry your freind is doing this to you. It may be that she wants to keep your cat. That happened to me my cousin was watching my little bunny and she wanted to keep it. I hope you do get your cat back. It is very heartbreaking when people do this.


MizzRandi39 (34)   ranked 4,943 out of 7,729 in cats  1 year ago

Thanks!! My mother did end up finally getting a hold of her...I looked for her add online and called her mom for it too, so now at least I know where she is, but like I said, my mom got a hold of her and she told her that her bf will be home every day this week! So I can finally get my cat back!!! My freind, or should I say, ex friend wasn't too happy, so I think that she did want to keep her, but that's just tough! She probably was also responding to the angry message I left her, when I told her i'd never ask her for anything ever again...but it paid off, I should be getting her in a couple more days:)

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