Sometimes patients know best.
By taface412
@taface412 (3175)
United States
July 7, 2008 7:45am CST
I know diabetes is a common disease and a mangeable one, but it still baffles me when you go into a hospital setting and you have doctors or nurses who sometimes think they know a little more about the disease then you do. I am not for a minute dismissing their medical education, but simply annoyed by the fact that they need to realize with or without a degree you have learned to live with this disease or someone suffering from it and you do know a little bit more about their personalized care than a doctor who you have just met.
For instance there are some who do not believe there is such a thing as a brittle diabetic. Well, my mother is one and has been all my life. And on many occassions she has been in the hospital and followed their advice and I have walked in several times to find her in a reaction because she took her insulin without eating.
Like I said I do know doctors, nurses know their stuff but they may have never met this type of diabetic and regular diabetic rules do not always apply to them. I work in healthcare as well and I know what their faces say when you explain things to them.
After all these years she finally found a doctor who knew exactly what she was talking about (an endocronoligist) whereas the others int he past blamed her for her lows and highs on blood sugar. She has been the most stable in my lifetime these past 2 years.
So how many of you out there are brittle diabetics? ANd have you run into problems with situations like this?
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@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I'm not diabetic but I understand about you wanting the people who work in health care to have some idea about the disease. My wife is an L&D nurse so she knows the importance of knowing her field, I think some nurses don't take the time to get to know their patient, so in turn they know nothing about their ailment. Its all about patient care.
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@taface412 (3175)
• United States
7 Jul 08
So very true. I mean I understand what it is like to have harping people around...in a nursing home setting, but even then I try to accomodate what the family wants for their relative....but in a setting like a hospital where patients don't usually stay longer than a week at most...those nurses need to really understand that not all families or patients are hypochondriacs or wanting to be treated "special", sometimes this info can save the patient's life and I would not want to be the nurse or aide on duty in that scenario.
And compliments to your wife for being a nurse. I am not sure what L&D is but being in nursing is a rewarding job.
@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Labor and Delivery, babies, tax deductions, miracles.
@taface412 (3175)
• United States
8 Jul 08
Found that out today. A friend at work mentioned Labor and Delivery b/c her daughter is due any day and it hit me...DUH. Guess I have post-blonde moments still LOL
@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
15 Jul 08
I'm sorry your mother has had to go through this. I'm not a brittle diabetic, but I do have diabetes. The problem is that lots of doctors heep us all together. Every diabetic is different and can do things differently. The only true way to tell what we can eat and when is by checking out blood sugar regularly.
Once we know what to do it's good to tell loved ones and those close to us so that if we do have to be hospitalized someone can notify the doctors and nurses of the best care. Of course, they have to be willing to listen.
@taface412 (3175)
• United States
16 Jul 08
So true. And about 2 years ago my mother found a specialist who basically helped her become more stable than she has ever been. Thanks God for doctors like him....and he is one a lot of nurses at the hospital and other places do not like because if they do not follow his orders for his patients he jumps on them....I say way to go!!!! After all, this isn't like the common cold....this disease can lead to comas.
Thanks for responding and wish you well.
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