Can you twist your partner on your little finger.

India
July 7, 2008 8:26am CST
Very often I have seen women manage to twist their spouses on thier little fingers. This really makes me wonder where I went wrong. My husband is kind and easygoing, but in no way will I be able to twist him round my finger. He has a mind of his own and will tell me off if he does not agree with me. Are you luckier than me?
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@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 08
Ohh believe me i can twist him better then a lid on a jam jar. He's like my own personal little slave, but i dont treat him like one... much XD. I ask small favours from him here and there, defo wouldnt push it though, can drive a man away like that. But yeah. I just got lucky i guess :P
• India
8 Jul 08
Aaah ! At last one person who is proud to have such a loving and tender partner who does things the way you want. I am sure you treat him with kids gloves, so he feels really great doing everything for you. Actually its an art, which I have not learnt. Good for you dear. Many many happier years ahead for you. Amen.
• United States
7 Jul 08
I don't know if i'm luckier than you but there have been times where I have been able to twist him around my finger. Not with major things but with certain things that I wanted him to do and that is not to say that my man is a softy and I do wish that it could happen more often.
• India
8 Jul 08
Well, I hope you get your wish more often. Yours is a good relationship, where your man will do as you tell 9 times out of 10 and still be strong when required. Good luck dear.
@taface412 (3175)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I would find it unappealing if I was with someone who always agreed with what I said. Sure, it might make life a little easier, but do you really have someone who loves you and will stand up when the time requires it. I personally find men like this to be littl eboys looking for a mother to take over where theirs left off. On other hand I do not want a chauvanist, but a nice mixture. Which is probably why I am single. I need someone who will challenge me yet respect me as I will do the same for him. All I see a lot of nowdays is men who are weak and dependent on women. No matter how far we come as women I do believe that the man still has a specific role in our lives. And that needs to be encouraged in them. But like I said this is why I am single most likely. Plus, I think my strong views scare them off LOL. I don't think you went wrong. You sound like you have a good combo of a man and you should be proud of that. Obviously the two of you compliment each other in ways of compatibility....wheras the others just coexist.
• India
8 Jul 08
I guess you are right. You will definitely find the right guy in time, just wait and watch. Yes, men have their own role to play in life and respect comes only when one can stand up to the other at times. I suppose that is why I have been married for 21 years. Thank you . You have made me feel I chose wisely. lol.