Have you ever had a friend that was to costly to keep
@cindystoufflet (299)
United States
July 8, 2008 11:07am CST
She is no longer my friend because i could not afford to keep her as a friend. Her and her huband did not work. They had four kids. We met because of our hobbies which is birds. They used to come spend the day with me eating and drinking all day. I felt sorry for the kids. Then they started borrowning money that never got paid back the last straw was when they borrowed a skill saw and pawned it. Why do people have to take advantage of a good friendship. I consider my self to be a good friend that is why i get taken advantage of. But I also know when to cut the strings. Let me know about your so called friends taking advantage of you.
2 responses
@nvtellan (1907)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
I had two friends who borrowed a hefty sum of money from me because they are in need of financial help. After they got my money they disappeared and they refuse to make contact with me.
Some 'friends' I had, huh?
So now, I am tight on the budget. A few borrowings I can still tolerate but if it has become abusive then the deal is off. I'll tell the person to get lost and get a life.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
8 Jul 08
Dear friend,
For me if I have a good and sincere friend I do not care spending money for that friend. May be he understands my condition and a good friend never let me down or let me bankrupt. More over if a friend who becomes expensive I would say it to that friend that I have only this much left and please shall we adjust. If not I hope that friend would have urgent need for money. More over a good friend never hurts his friends. This could also analyse the trust and sincereity of that friend.
