i just about have it!!!!!
By raclie
@raclie (1732)
Singapore
July 9, 2008 1:07am CST
that guy is driving me crazy!!!
he is just doind everything in the TEAM presentation!!!!
i was showing a huge load of attutude to him...
still...
no clue...
and he is just doing the presentation...
with no discussion to us at all!!!
i just cannot stand the way he is acting!!!
help me!!!!
i feel like murdering him already!!!!






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6 responses
• Singapore
10 Jul 08
Right before you put a pin on a person, have you ever think about yourself first ? Is he dong this just to YOU, or to everyone ? He could be doing this to you, because he simply think that you cant work well with him, or your points are irrelevant ? Out there, he could be selfless, and teaching everybody.
Is he showing this attitude to YOU, or to everyone ?
If he just show this to YOU, that oughta be your own problem.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
9 Jul 08
I am someone who has presented a LOT to companies and people throughout the world. It is a strong requirement of my career role to do so. I have encountered people from all walks of life that are timid to downright aggressive. With the aggressive ones the only advice I can offer you is to patiently bide your time. Their personalities will become known to all very, very quickly and by biding your time and stepping in at just the right moments you can be assured of positioning yourself well and putting forward your worth. People who are aggressive and talk the most generally always end up talking themselves into a corner or saying too much at the wrong time. This is when it is your time to shine! Don't also be afraid to add your inputs throughout his presentation or engage someone directly that asks questions about something you know the answer to. If this is a team presentation and he is running the game (as far as he is concerned); his attitude towards others trying to be involved will be very evident to everyone around you. Play it smart and play it cool! Good luck.
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
Sorry to hear bout that. Stay calm and relax.
In these situations it's better to control your emotions. Don't kill him.
Hay may not know what his actions are doing. Just talk to him first along with your other teammates, and ask why the rest weren't given a part in the presentation. You should have equal chances. You should be able to get a good reason why.
If not, and if it seems he is just being really selfish, talk to your teacher. Just be fair in discussing the situation. Get his point, ask 3rd party (your teacher/s) and deal it, resolve it with both sides agreeing, then move on. 
In these situations it's better to control your emotions. Don't kill him.
Hay may not know what his actions are doing. Just talk to him first along with your other teammates, and ask why the rest weren't given a part in the presentation. You should have equal chances. You should be able to get a good reason why.
If not, and if it seems he is just being really selfish, talk to your teacher. Just be fair in discussing the situation. Get his point, ask 3rd party (your teacher/s) and deal it, resolve it with both sides agreeing, then move on. 
@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
9 Jul 08
Hey, raclie, talk to him first. Some guys just don't realize what he/she has done will hurt others. If he still doesn't take in the suggestion, you and other guys may join together and teach him a lesson. You have to find a solution, killing him is not a desirable one, although i know well that you won't do it at all, will you?
Good luck
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
I think you should actually tell him that you should be allowed to contribute to the project because in the end you might not get a good grade when it comes to individual participation. Don't let him be the boss around. Make it a group effort from your other members to tell him what needs to be done rather than agreeing to everything he says.
@purplelavander (56)
• China
9 Jul 08
You do not need to be angry with someone who do not worth. I'll translate a Chinese song for you, it's named Don't be angry. The translation is as follow:Life is just like a drama,
we meet each other by fate;It's not easy to be together,
should we treasure each other?We are easy to get angry for bagatelle,
is that really worthy?I would not be angry while others do,
because nobody will pity me when I am angry to ill.
Who will be happy when I am ill?
only friends will sad for me.
We do not need to compare with others,
and we do not need to worry about something beyond our ability.
Through the difficult and the easy,
we are the best friends forever.
Are you still angry?






