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onlinemoneymatters (78)   ranked 3,984 out of 5,892 in had children3 months ago

After marriage, you automatically fall in love with your spouse, after that you have kids and then you fall in love with your kids too. Before marriage you loved your parents only and now you have three streams to distribute your love to. Which one of these do you care for and love the most? No doubt, you love them all but some degree up and down for each of them. Is it possible to love them all equally or not?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 70/100. Piscesmoon (1091)   ranked 1,828 out of 5,892 in had children   3 months ago

I think you love them all but in different ways. Personally, my kids are my top priority and nothing comes above them. I brought them into the world and it is up to me to give them the best, most love-filled life possible.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. salonga (1861)   ranked 979 out of 5,892 in had children   3 months ago

I love them all very much but I would say the intensity varied. In my case the greatest love goes to my husband because we are one flesh, we have been united in a holy union and for that we both left our parents to be united as one


myLot reputation of 97/100. salonga (1861)   ranked 979 out of 5,892 in had children  3 months ago

My kid, I do love very much as well but sooner or later, he will also get his own wife and will leave me to be united with his wife and lead their own life. Just as what I did to my parents when I married my man. It's my husband whose gonna be with me till death do us part and hence, he gets my greatest love of all.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (1345)   ranked 3,639 out of 5,892 in had children   3 months ago

The kind of love that we have for everyone differs. But I think I love them all equally. I could not say that I love someone more than the other. Ofcourse the importance given to each of them is different in different situations. Since my kids are small now I give them more importance in my life. But if God forbid my mother had to fall ill tomorrow I would give her more attention than my children. So I could say that I care and love all of them equally. My spouse is no more so I have not included him in this discussion.

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. indianpedi (1169)   ranked 495 out of 5,892 in had children   3 months ago

I think a Mother loves her kids more than her husband,
A husband loves his parents more than his spouse.

This is so in my country at least, because we are culturally brought up with these beliefs and customs.

I have never seen a Mother desert her kids in favour of her spouse, in all these years.

Unfortunately, a very common happening here is for a husand to leave his wife for the sake of his parents.

You may perhaps be horrified to read this, but it is true in most parts of India still, where 70% of the population is steeped in tradition and lives in small villages.
Education is spreading to all our villages and hopefully a better sense of justice will prevail among husbands of the future!

 
5. myLot reputation of 84/100. barbie84 (1578)   ranked 1,380 out of 5,892 in had children   3 months ago

the love i feel for my husband is no where near as strong as for my children, a bond between parent and child will always be a lot stronger than that of husband and wife, the two loves are different so cannot realy be compared

 
6. myLot reputation of 94/100. bieke81 (573)   ranked 4,083 out of 5,892 in had children   3 months ago

I think the greatest love is for your children. I know mine is. If I ever had to choose between my partner or my kids, it will be the kids. Same goes for my parents. I know they raised me and I do love them, but they won't go before my kids.

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