what would you feel if one of your best friendz betray you???
By mizzJhaded
@mizzJhaded (244)
Philippines
July 10, 2008 9:12am CST
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The story goes like this...
I have a very big secret...and it's so confidential...
If it will spread it will affect somebody's life...and that somebody happens to be my BF...
I told her about it coz it hurts a lot if I would just keep it and try to deal with it all by my self...
I needed somebody to talk to...
I trusted her so much...but the thing is...she told her boyfriend about my secret...she told me she can't hide anything from his BF...she said her BF would never tell anybody...I was so upset...until now...We hadn't have talked yet...
Does she have the right to tell my secret to somebody even if it's her BF???...
Was she reasonable enough???
If you were in my shoes what would you do???
what would you tell her???
do I have the right to be angry with her???
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4 responses
@moneyisme (79)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
Aww thats gonna hurt. Anyway i hope you learn from your mistakes and never commit it again!
@mizzJhaded (244)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
I don't consider I was the one who committed mistake...
She shouldn't have told her BF...she should have keep it to herself...any way her BF knows nothing 'bout it at all...he never asked about it 'coz he have no idea 'bout it...
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
If I were on your shoes, I will definitely mad at her. But you know my friend there's a saying " A secret can be revealed any time ". Try to hide your secrets some times, and If you think you can confide your secrets to someone you really know what you can trust to. I think your best friend's boyfriends are not so close to you that's why you mad right now. If this thing is too personal, you have the right to confront your best friend about it. And tell her what If you do the same thing to her, What is she going to feel about it? What If the secret is like very sensitive, is she still going to reveal it even your life is in trouble. Let her realize every thing so next time around she will never do it. Or better yet for your sake, never tell her any thing even though she's your best friend. This is your for own protection.
@jennifer611 (2514)
• United States
10 Jul 08
If she knew this was something that you told her with the understanding she keep it to herself then I think she is very wrong and you have every right to be upset.
this is her boy friend, not her husband.
maybe with a husband you wouldn't want to keep secrets from him but a boyfriend?
I would have kept it to myself.
if it were me I would tell her that I thought I could trust her but obviously I was wrong and now I will never trust her enough to tell her anything else that I feel I don't want people to know.
if you wanted him to know, I'm sure you would have told him.
as a best friend she should have had respect for you and said nothing, or she should have told you before you said anything that if you tell her secrets she feels she can't hold those secrets from her mate, then you would have known to not say anything..
you do have every right to be angry, BUT, if her friendship means a lot to you, try to let this go, but remember it so it wont happen again...
