I Miss My Husband So Badly That My Lips Are Tinglig!!

I would be tempted to move to the U.K., except they are even more Stasi-like than the American government. This is coming soon, probably around the end of the year, to Canada. I still think Denmark would be our best bet.

What you need was to watch a different program. Maybe it was the people who you hung around with. I'm not into religion nor politics. I find both boring, I rather do or listen to something else. Nor all american are into those two category. It's also nice over here, depending where you go. We have Disneyland, to go have a good time. we also have Six flag for excitment. And we also have San Diego, Sea World. We have some many nice places to visit. I say stay away from people who only thing about religion and poltitics, that no fun. them two would put me to sleep. Now with TV, you have so much to pick from. If you have cable even better. You have your sitcoms like FRIENDS, that keep you laughing all day long. you have STANDING STILL, ROSEANN, KING OF QUEENS. This are just a few. But please don't think that all American are into just religion and politics. If your husband doesn't get a job in Canada, hang in there and find other people that will make you stay a lot better. Someone who is willing to show you the town, and have a great time. I'm sure each state has something good to offer. Hang Danish, us American have a lot of good times, and plenty to see. Ask MYLOT, I sure each one will tell something different. If you lets us know what state you're in, we can tell what to see, where to go. Maybe you're feeling this way, because you're family is in Canada. If you give us a chance, you will be a very happy bride.

thats a good decision!! never let him go again..since when married it means for better and for worse and 1+1=1..so either of you must decide on which location you will choose to live and have family..

Leah, I thought you were in AZ now. Where did I get that from?? I dont know but I had quit worrying about you because I thought you two were finally together. I am so sorry to hear that you are not. That just is not right.

My husband and I lived apart for 2 months while we moved to another state in the US. I got out here to start my job, and he stayed home to finish his rugby season with his team. I really missed him, but we had not yet been married a full year, and there was something nice about the alone time - I cooked the way I like to cook, and took hot baths and things I don't always get to do when he is around. It was a sort of mini-vacation for a bit, but I was thrilled to see him!! As for American overload, I used to live close to the Canadian border, and I watched the CBC a LOT. I always watched sports on CBC because they didn't get into all the gossip and BS that american stations do. But if you don't like TV, you can always turn it off. I haven't had television service at my house for over a year, I listen to NPR on the radio, and I feel less stressed out, and I'm not getting my head jammed with crap every night!

What a wonderful words you have wrote, I like it so much, and I am sorry if I start this similar discussion, I hope you don't get mad with me I don't know that you have start such a discussion, but I write just what I feel now so forgive me my dear friend. Have a nice day.

I hope the time flies by for you and you and your husband can be together! I would probably go stir crazy if I had to go with out my husband for that long.

if it weren't for religion and politics, we would still be a British colony.

Wow! That's nice, you're sooooooooo in love :). You should get together soon! It pains me to see people in love being torn apart by distance. It's really sad. I'm sure you're missing him a lot. I hope you'll see him soon and yes, hold on to that. Don't ever let him go again, you deserve that.

That is too bad that you had to separate from each other only after 11 days of marriage. I hope you find the time together again when he goes to visit you. I agree Americans take religion and politics too far out and it bugs me so I don't watch the news as much.

After posting I had another thought. It is good that the USA takes religion seriously or the molestation of over 500 kids from the Chatholic church may have just gone unnoticed. I am curious as to Canada and Mexico, if the citizens and media of these two Countries think that this isnt happening as well? I was reading in the local paper here in Mazatlan of over 130 reports in less than 3 months of child abuse here. In over 30 different grade schools and kinders. This type of thing isnt limited to the country line or border. Very sad isnt it?

The Good old US Of A. I think the reason that America takes politics and religion so seriously is because its a religously free state built on politics. Or is it the other way around. Regardless of what it is and what people think of it. Everyone sure likes the money made from the work there. As far as the BBC goes they are the biggest and thus the most cencored media in the world, Whats not to love about that. I can see after time around the majorally cencored micro medias of the USA a bit of BBC might just be refreshing. just know that your not the only one suffering from culture shock and that at least your in Canada. Sure hope that your hubby gets back soon so that your lips will stop tingling. You dont think this tingle might be from something they are putting in the drinks at the Second Cup? LOL :)

I could understand your feeling because thats what also i feel right now.My husband is out of town and i am missing him.I wish i just go with him.But he will be here tomorrow.I hope you and your husband could find a way to be together soon also.Its hard for a couple to be away from each other.

Thank you for being a loving and caring wife. I understand the challenges you are passing through though you've not said what nationality of your husband is. Both of you should consider the advantage and disadvantage of one of you working in a distant place. In family and Job consideration which is which first? To me I would consider family first because jobs are they even if it seems nowhere at the moment, but it will be available someday and family if you loose you know the outcome of it. Thanks to the availability of the BBC. Especially World News, focus on Africa, net work Africa and BBC Kiswahili Services I listen to BBC trough flash player in my cellphone wherever I am.

Guess every one goes through cultural shock when they move or visit from their own country to another. Hope you and your hubby have many happy years and hope he finds work soon if not maybe you should reconsider moving back to the US where he has a job already. WE aren't all bad here...lol

is he canadian or american? i have a friend that got married in october/06 and they still cannot get together (she is canadian and he is american and their respective governments seem bound and bent to keep them apart!

I'm so glad that you are so in love with your husband and you are looking forward to a happy life together. Good luck to the two of you.

Sounds like you really miss your honey! That's so sweet. Best wishes on a quick reunion! Beauty Queen

hello, i cant help but smile when i read the title of your discussion coz i know exactly what it is like. it is understandable that you feel that way coz you guys are away, i know some will say that it is just a distance and you still have each other despite that STILL it is not enough coz the personal presence itself is a huge difference just than talking on the phone. i have to agree that US is becoming more and more into religion and politics lately and not much about the issues that is more important. i know politics is important but to hear it 24/7 will not make a change at all. i like BBC myself coz they seem to be more fair and give both sides of the stories. i have never been to canada but i like the place coz it looks very clean and just peaceful. i have never heard anything bad about canada and mostly it is about the great stuff specially the health issues that americans dont have. i think i will feel what you are feeling right now soon coz my hubby will go up in BC for a training and it will be a week trip. we wish i can go but we have pets at home and it is more of a business trip and it wont be fun at all. oh well. im sure i will want the same thing of not letting him go once i got him back LOL anyway, you sure sounds very in love and i am happy to hear that. it makes me smile when i see someone happy and in love coz it is one of the greatest feeling in the world. have a good one!

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