When your very best friend became the 3rd party in your relationship....
By yenwie84
@yenwie84 (1344)
Malaysia
July 11, 2008 7:51am CST
What would you in this situation? One is your very best friend that you knew for so long time ago and one is your loved one. How should you react? Will you blame your best friend for taking your loved one or will you blame your loved one for not able to control himself or herself? This is a very hard question to face actually. If this was happened to a couple who are not yet married then still like no other things to worry about.Maybe they just get separated. But what about a married couple with children? Maybe they will force to divorce, end up the children will grow up in an incomplete family. Even worse is when the married couple choose to give each other a chance, then there will be forever a scar in the relationship. If you are in this kind of situation,what will you do? Do tell me,have a nice day.
2 responses
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
This is one of the worst situations we could have. Not only we lose a person we love, but we lose two of them. My first question would be, why? and why now? As a person who can somehow manage my emotion, it would be very tough. I'll still keep trying to be rational when talking to them. But then, I just have to prepare if they do love each other, I know it sounds easy but I'll just let them go.
I have many other things in mind right now like my family and my career as well. Well, that's my current situation. It could different from others. But again, it will be difficult. How much more if I am married and this happens? I'll just do the best I can to minimize the effects on the kids. I could forgive but I can almost always never forget. Take care!
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
This situation really sucked. I hoped it will not happen to me. And if for some unfortunate reason it will happen to me. I will cry in my own rivers of pain. Just give me one week to cry it out. I need those period to mourn for my lost love. And for the lost of my bestfriend's friendship. Let's be honest with each other. I could eventually forgive them in the long run. But the remains of the pain will always be remembered. I would never want to see them again. My life would be better with out them. I know for sure I can recover.
