When your teenager acts like a human being...

@kbkbooks (7022)
Canada
July 14, 2008 6:08pm CST
Many of you have heard me complain in the past about my stepson. He is now 19 years old. Last school year he completed two courses and he plans to complete the rest of his high school this coming school year at adult education. As if that weren't enough, he has started looking for a job (no luck so far) and this morning he actually picked up his own laundry off the bedroom floor and put it in the washer himself. My own kids don't live with me but they both work part time and when they are here they help with the housework and do their own laundry. So you would think I would be accustomed to this. I have been so busy being aggravated with my stepson that I am now completely shocked by his "normal" behavior. I am waiting for the excrement to hit the ventilation unit... I have to say I am pleased in a way but in another way I can't believe it's real. Have you ever experienced this kind of sudden change in your teenagers? Should I revel in the glory or should be wary that things could suddenly go back to the way they were?
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• United States
15 Jul 08
Normally that is a prelude to asking for something such as a favor, borrow money, etc., etc.
@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
15 Jul 08
That is totally possible I think. I'm just waiting for the explosion.
• Canada
15 Jul 08
Enjoy it while it lasts, hope it does, but stay alert, at the same time. Things are great now. Tell him how much you appreciate this new hange. Encourage him to remain the nice kid he is today, and praise him for the good he has done. If he reverts back to his old way, let him know you liked the new ways better, and ask him why the sudden change back. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth, but appreiate he git, at the same time.
@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
15 Jul 08
That's what I was thinking. I am trying to be positive about his behavior, but it just freaks me out.