What Hurts Most?

well i guess when someone exchange you for another person hurts. but it hurts your ego more. i guess having someone to left you because they no longer want the responsibility of being committed to you hurts more.

I only had one serious relationship in my whole life. And I married that one person. So far, what I really miss is his hugs and our sweet conversations. In our 10 years of being married he didn't hurt me physically. But what really hurts is whenever we have arguments, I kept on hearing words that is really painful and gets marked not only on my mind but also in my heart. Happy postings best! HUGZ to you!

Hi neildc, I have a great memories with my past..I was not hurt a lot since I know it was for the best of us both! and I am indeed happy with our decision because I found the man who truly care and love me in spite of my "brat" attitude sometimes.LOL!I am just praying that he found a real girl who will also love him unconditionally!

I love that song and a few years back I could not stop playing it . I have not been with anyone else but my fiance rob for 8 years now .I am trying to think about my ex . No , I know . what hurt the most is we could of been really good together . We had the start of something really good and that was all . He was still a scared little boy , and ran from me when we got too close . He even told me it is a big regret of his .( later on ) You know sometimes you get a 2nd chance , but sometimes you move on.

Hi Neil, I used to go out with is many years ago we were courting for six years and I loved him very much. the one day he broke off with me, now here is those words What hurts most was the fact he rang me up and broke it of with me just before Christmas and he was on his way to meet his new girl, now how cruel was that, talk about a kick in the teeth. I had his Christmas present all wrapped as well. I gave it to my brother instead. Love Tamara.

I never miss anything in my previous relationship but everytime i remember how my ex beat me it hurts me so bad and as much as possible i don't want to be reminded of it but there are things sometimes that would make me remember it.

That line and the following few remind me of only one thing... A bit over 5 years ago, I was sitting on my former in-laws porch with the divorce papers in front of me. I knew we both seemed to have moved on but something was making it hard to sign. The words were right there but they wouldn't come out. Then his then girlfriend popped her head out the door and asked if he wanted a sandwich...I signed before the door shut behind her. I was heartbroken. I fought back tears as he went inside but told myself I was doing what was right for him. (They broke up a few months later...she was the one who insisted we make the divorce legal....but once she realized that the divorce papers still wouldn't give her what she wanted, she moved in with another guy...so if not for her we may not have gone through wit the legalities and that could have made a world of difference)

Well it's true because as they say the only people who could hurt you the most are the people you love the most. Although the nice thing about this is that you could always ask for their forgiveness or you are always willing to forgive them because you know that the love is greater than all the hurt you feel and surely love would take all the hurt away