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what's your common reasons to your parents when you came home late? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1322)   ranked 1,002 out of 12,551 in parenting3 months ago

I am a home buddy way back high school. my parents way back then were so strict and always check my schedule. so I really don't have the chance to go out with my friends after class.. and if ever there's no class.. I don't have any excuses to go out because they will always tell me that why the heck will I go out where there is no class?..
so there.. no gimmick moments during my high school days.. glare

during my college days, if ever I will came home late, there's this "interview portion" with my parents on where did I go.. I always come up with these excuses.. " My best friend invited me to her house because her ___ celebrates its birthday." or " we made our project to our best friend's house.."

as you've notice, my best friend should always be included on my excuses. because they trust my best friend so much, and that they are at ease whenever I am with my best friend..
guilt always kills me whenever I use my best friend's name, but of course, I will always inform my best friend that I will use her as my excuse.. she get mad sometimes, but of course, she always remind me to take care and not to go anywhere because she's responsible for whatever happens to me since my parents knows that I am with her..

I rarely go out during college since my parents were so strict, but whenever, I will use my best friend as an excuse. but of course, I know my limitations, and my responsibilities, so I wouldn't do anything to brake the trust of my parents to my best friend. happy

but now, since I am on the right age, and that I already finish my studies, it's OK now for my dad, wherever I want to go, I just have to inform him so that he'll never get worried about me.

how about you, share your funny excuses to your parents whenever you came home late when you were still young or when you were still a student.


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ratyz5 (1928) response was accepted on 7/25/2008.
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tags:  parents, late, excuses, curfew, strict parents
 
1. myLot reputation of 84/100. Yestheypayme2dothis (2078)   ranked 920 out of 12,551 in parenting   3 months ago

I never had any excuses. I told the truth, and there was no problem.


myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1322)   ranked 1,002 out of 12,551 in parenting  3 months ago

good for you.. you deserve the trust of your parents. happy

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. dragon54u (3379)   ranked 2,547 out of 12,551 in parenting   3 months ago

I never had to make up excuses. My mom never gave me a curfew, nor my brothers and sister. We just knew she expected us back at a reasonable hour and we did it. I came in late just once and began to offer an explanation but she stopped me and said that I undoubtedly had my reasons and she trusted me to use my good judgment. I was never late again!

I did the same with my kids, with less spectacular results, but they generally came in at reasonable times. happy


myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1322)   ranked 1,002 out of 12,551 in parenting  3 months ago

good for you, and what your doing with your kid is right..

well, I just have to make an excuses, because even if I wouldn't do anything bad, they wouldn't give me the chance go out my friends..

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. raclie (862)   ranked 1,806 out of 12,551 in parenting   3 months ago

wow...
that is really strict!!!!
but i guess it is because they love you alot...
my family have taught me since young that we have to go home right after class...
and so we are used to it...
and if we come home late we just explain to her...
and it will be fine...
lol...


myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1322)   ranked 1,002 out of 12,551 in parenting  3 months ago

yes, they are.. but I know that they just wanted to protect us.

good for you.. are you allowed to go out when you're still student?

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. jer31558 (2270)   ranked 2,040 out of 12,551 in parenting   3 months ago

Though I am a bit old to worry about this and both of my parents have passed away, when I was younger I didn't have a problem with this. My parents knew where their children were pretty much all the time and when we would be home. I myself was a home body and liked to read more so than going places. They could find me most of the time around the house with a book and my nose buried in it.


myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1322)   ranked 1,002 out of 12,551 in parenting  3 months ago

wow, that is good. me too, I also read books or watch DVD whenever I am home.. or sometimes do my homework.

 
5. myLot reputation of 99/100. chechuva (798)   ranked 5,509 out of 12,551 in parenting   3 months ago

i would say parents are really natural paranoid about there children's whereabouts!
i am not used in going out late back in my high school and college years. i always made a way to inform my mom where will i be after my class and i do not intend to go home late.
my parents are not that strict about me going out with my friends. but when i go out in a date, that's the time they get strict on me. i am 24 years old but still they are very strict with me about dating.
just last may, i went out with a guy. i said to my mom that im going to shop for a shoes at the mall. i went out 9 in the morning and i went home 1 am the following day! my mom was so worried that she called my siblings and asked for help to call me and find where i am. i didn't really heard my phone ringing. but the time i was about to go home. i checked my phone and saw 100+ missed calls and 25 text messages from my siblings and brother-in-law.
honestly that was the worst thing i ever did to my mom. i made her so worried about me. i was so guilty. but when she asked me where did i go. i just said a friend invited me to a party! i think she believed me since she never asked me again about it...
fortunately i have a mom who is very understanding!


myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1322)   ranked 1,002 out of 12,551 in parenting  3 months ago

I agree with you..I will that parents will do their best just to protect us..

woah!.. shocked that's just a normal reactions from a mother.. any mother would be like that,,just don't do that the next time..

 
6. myLot reputation of 80/100. rogue13xmen13 (5742)   ranked 1,306 out of 12,551 in parenting   3 months ago

When I was in high school and I came home late, I would just say that I was at my friends house watching scary movies. I was not lying, we saw so many scary movies that we knew when the blood was going to come out of the guy in the next scene of the films. I would not know it now because I have seen so many other films, but I knew it then. Horror films are great when you are single and you have nothing to do on a Friday or Saturday night.


myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1322)   ranked 1,002 out of 12,551 in parenting  3 months ago

I am not fond of watching horror movies..it really stuck in my mind for a week or 2. doh

 
7. myLot reputation of 89/100. harsha04 (1018)   ranked 3,606 out of 12,551 in parenting   3 months ago

sually tell that i was surfing a lot at wee hours.Sometimes it may look quite iriational if it is told twice to the same parents.


myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1322)   ranked 1,002 out of 12,551 in parenting  3 months ago

yeah. agree with you.. you should come up with a different, and reasonable excuses. lol

 
8. myLot reputation of 94/100. successlog (948)   ranked 7,376 out of 12,551 in parenting   3 months ago

hi,i am a good boy,i come home later seldom.if i really come home later, I think i have the good reason for it.because i think when i tell the truth to my parents,they always encourage me a lot.Because i always do some correct things.. happy.My partens always say:come home earlier, take care on road....lol..

good day


myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1322)   ranked 1,002 out of 12,551 in parenting  3 months ago

what a nice parent you have.. and such a good boy too. happy

 
9. myLot reputation of 66/100. subha12 (12608)   ranked 2,599 out of 12,551 in parenting   3 months ago

I am never late generally from office. even if I am late, its due to fact i had lots of work. i let them know in advance when i will be late for home. I never have to make any excuse.


myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1322)   ranked 1,002 out of 12,551 in parenting  3 months ago

well, that's a valid reason. happy

 
10. myLot reputation of 95/100. Monkeyrose (1136)   ranked 3,988 out of 12,551 in parenting   3 months ago

The truth.

My parents have always let me basically do what I want as long as I'm responsible and tell them where I am and what I'm doing. If I'm going to be home later I'll tell them or phone and let them know. SOmetimes I don't say all the details... but I'd basically say what I was doing.


myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1322)   ranked 1,002 out of 12,551 in parenting  3 months ago

you are so close with your family that you let them know what you're doing.. good for the both of you. happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. Monkeyrose (1136)   ranked 3,988 out of 12,551 in parenting  3 months ago

lol

Yes I am really happy that I can be open and honest with my parents. My whole immediate family is really close. I am especially close with my mother. ANy problems that may arrise I always go to her for help. My family is very supportive of each other. happy


myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1322)   ranked 1,002 out of 12,551 in parenting  3 months ago

good for you. I envy you.. I hope that I could have that kind of family in the future. happy

 
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