" i don't love you anymore..."
By pinks17
@pinks17 (2192)
Philippines
July 21, 2008 1:46am CST
Have you received this answer when you asked your partner what was the reason why we broke up?Or have you asked your partner what happened why all of a sudden he decided to end the relationship?
I asked my ex-husband few years ago "what happened to us?what was the problem why you decided to end our relationship and file an annullment?"..He just answered "I don't love you anymore".I guess I just believe that "everything happens for a reason"..I needed the answer for that question for closure.."i don't love you anymore" is not an enough answer to that question.It doesn't explain everything.Saying that phrase is not enough..there should be some supporting reason..no matter how painful his reasons are...I guess I have the right to know.
I asked that not because to win him back but bec. I want to know the reason so that I will not commit the same mistake again (if I have one) and so that in my next relationship I know already what to do and for me to keep my relationship now until I die.
Sorry guys I just got so emotional..I just don't believe in that answer..bec. I believe when you have to say that phrase..it needs supporting details why..so as to be clear and for better closure as well...happy mylotting to all.ciao.
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@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
That was so sad. Im sorry to hear that. Why not just give your husband what he wants. You do have the right to know his reasons but I think he's not just ready to tell you all the details on making him come up with that decisions. Im sure that one day he will have the urge to tell you everything or maybe you will be able to find the answers just in the right time.
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@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
Hi ayessa..thanks for posting.
We are friends already and I am happy with my present partner.I just wanted to know the reason.But I hope one day..when I ask him that same question he will have the guts to tell me his reasons..Happy mylotting ayessa.ciao.
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@danishcanadian (28954)
• Canada
22 Jul 08
I am extremely blessed in hat I never really "broke up" with a partner My husband has been married a couple of times, and my parets are divorced. I just decided that I dind't want to be a person with many partners, that I just had to find the right one for me the first time. I did, and that man is my husband.
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@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Yeah i know how you feel.
Its always good to have closure! Some people need it more than others or it stays in the back of there minds forever.
I believe that closure is good so you can shut it away and focus on being 100% dedicated to the next person in your life!
Its always good to have closure! Some people need it more than others or it stays in the back of there minds forever. I believe that closure is good so you can shut it away and focus on being 100% dedicated to the next person in your life!@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
Thanks for the post amanda.Yup it really needs a closure esp. when you know that you've done nothing wrong for the relationship to fall apart and that you are clueless about his issues why he decided to broke up with you.Aside from the closure of course once you know his reasons,bec. we are not perfect so we really should need to know the reason so that in the next relationsip you will try to avoid doing the same mistakes again and so that you can have this relationship till you are old.Happy mylotting.
