mean person

@msedge (4011)
United States
July 21, 2008 7:31pm CST
Sometimes we experience that someone who we trust disappoints us by doing something really mean to us . For instance if this person has been talking behind our back or backbiting us. But if it has been a long time friend it might be difficult to end all contact .When you’re aware of this mean behavior you will have to make a decision : to end the friendship or to stay friends .It’s your choice!.But if you choose to stay friends , how will you stay friends with such a mean person?
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4 responses
@reckon21 (3477)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
[i]That is very hard if someone i trust completely would backbite me behind my back. I would rather confront my friend about it. I will tell him that i don't like backbiting. If he wont change i will not talk to him again. My life has no place for a person like him.[/i]
@msedge (4011)
• United States
29 Jul 08
Right backbiting would just simply mean that you can't trust him and its not good to have a friend like that.He will just cause trouble.
• Canada
22 Jul 08
I would not stay friends with such a mean person. My frieds are real friends, and we all know that the minute one of us berays the other, it's the end of the friendship. Why would want to stay riends with someone who would only betray anothe person? Anyone who would do that is only setting him/herself up for failure.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
29 Jul 08
I agree!A person that would backbite is not a real friend.That means they are not happy with their lives.
@nanayangel (7877)
• Philippines
22 Nov 08
Hi there Ms. Edge! That would be really hard for me. If I really value the friendship then something like that will happen, I don't know if I will be able to continue being friends with that person. Well, I just might be able to stay friends with her or him but the relationship or the friendship will never be the same. I might not be able to give my trust to that person ever again.
@hiddenwing (3719)
• China
23 Nov 08
There happens to be a mean friend around. For reasons, I have to meet her everyday! As you know, it is disquiet to be in harmony with her if I always bear her selfish behavior in mind! Forgetting everything, is thus a better choice anyway. However, a fox may change grey but never good! In a same way, these people could be dangerous! Don't take it so seriously though! On the other hand, you should guard against them to a certain extent, leaving some leeway! If I could have a choice, I won't stay friends with people like that! There are all kinds of fishes in a sea! Why bother making friends with a bad fish! It is so esay to have a good time with kind fishes anyway! Here is the thing! It is not up to me! Haha Have a great day!