Leaving the past behind  | |  it is very difficult to move on if we are carrying all these grudges with us. Past is past and we need to learn from it. Pick up the lessons, carry it and move on. There are some people who have a difficulty in leaving the past behind. It hunts them from time to time. Mistakes are already mistakes. You cannot change it but you can correct it and do better than before. Having an open mind will greatly help but once a person loses the confident its really difficult to bring it back.
In my life, I had so many past, though it is not as bad as the others, for me it is really painful. But I moved on. If I won't initiate the movement, who will. From that experience I pick up the good points I have learned and the bad points which I need to avoid. It is really painful to face the consequences that past has brought that is life. Reality hurts.
What about you? Do you or have left your past behind? Were able to moved on already? How did you do it?
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| | | | | | | | | 1. churchill1980 (24) | 3 months ago |  leaving the past that absolutely change your future is really hard to do. but with every failure that one experience, i believe it is his discretion whether or not he will move on or cling into it. with me, i am moving on with life. i have made the greatest mistake and pay the prize for it. with my decision to move on and just leave the bad memories behind, i become more complete as a person.
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 leateagee (873) | 3 months ago | You are definitely correct. All matters in our decision. I am so glad that you are able to moved on and now you are a more complete person. Good luck. Take care=) | |
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| | | 2. crazyoverpurple (1403) | 3 months ago |  I have made several mistakes in the past. Some were severe enough to make my parents cry. At first, leaving the past and moving on seemed like a daunting task. But with the help of my family and with the help of prayers, I was able to find the strength to move forward. I treat every mistake I've done in the past as lessons well learned. Since taking back the hands of time is impossible, I just keep in mind the mistakes I've done in the past and try to avoid committing them again. Take the good with the bad, that will make you stronger and more confident to face life.
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| | 3.  tamarafireheart (4408) | 3 months ago |  Hi leateagee,
Everybody has a past wheather good or bad some suffer more that others but we all have a past we learn to live with it and move on and make the present a better past occaisionally we say what if, but it does not matter because it our destiny and we have to live it the best way we can and I hope your present will be a good past.
Tamara
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| | | 4. neildc (1863) | 3 months ago |  There are some good things brought by the past and that will always be an inspiration for me to go on with my life. From the bad things happened, we just have to learn from it, and still have to move on. KEEP SMILING=> NEIL
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| | | | | 5. zer0charly (1322) | 3 months ago |  I totally agree with you. Life is too short to live with grudges, hatred, and pain in our heart.. and how can we sleep better if we are keeping some in our heart, mind and soul?.. 
past is past, and we can't do nothing about it.. we can't go back and change what's already done..
I always use my past to motivate myself, and to make things better.. especially if I made some mistakes in the past.. I don't blame myself, nor to blame others.. I learned from it now, and never do that again.. and of course, sometimes, we should also look behind our past.. that reminds us on who we are before, and what things change us.. better or for worst?.. and what we are now, is the sum of all the decision we've made in the past.. so past will definitely played an important part of our lives.
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