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myLot reputation of 1/100. cryw0lf (183)   ranked 17,462 out of 17,576 in relationships1 month ago

The heart or the head? When IN or even OUT of a relationship, which one tells you what to do, how to solve things. Such as problems in the relationship, or if you like someone but you're not with them etc? If so, what does your heart -or head, tell you to do most of the time? And... Why do you follow it?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 72/100. heart4u (359)   ranked 2,280 out of 17,576 in relationships   1 month ago

both i never let one only decide because if only one you might get lost


myLot reputation of 1/100. cryw0lf (183)   ranked 17,462 out of 17,576 in relationships  1 month ago

Well, its not the same for me.

If i follow my head i get confused and end up hurt, if i follow my heart, i find i always get left in the place i wanna be.

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2. myLot reputation of 73/100. Kemboi (278)   ranked 2,357 out of 17,576 in relationships   1 month ago

You need to ballance because both work together, there are some things you reason with yous head and there are some things you speak with your heart. Even in the christian Bible there is a place in the book of Jeremiah where it says the heart is the most deceitfull thing who can know? Again in the same Bible in the book of Proverbs it says as a man thinks so he is. So which of this is the right statement to apply with.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. dragonfly242 (857)   ranked 324 out of 17,576 in relationships   1 month ago

Hi wolf!
I usaully follow my head, as my heart has led me to heartach far more often.
I use to do things soley on what my heart was saying, and that led me{and kept me} in some unhealty situations that my head tried to warn me about.
But as i matured i learned that my heart and head must lead my path, because not everything my heart desires is good for me,i have learned the hard way that my heart can be treacherous.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. austere (886)   ranked 1,984 out of 17,576 in relationships   1 month ago

it should always be the head before the heart. but more often than not, it's the heart that rules because we are but emotional beings. sometimes very contradictory as well. when we follow the head, we get hurt for denying what we feel, and when we follow what's logical, we get so stoned, we hurt other people. it should be both.. and the should be a consensus between these two.:)

 
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