Who calls the shots in your relationship?
By cryw0lf
@cryw0lf (1302)
United Kingdom
July 23, 2008 5:40am CST
The heart or the head? When IN or even OUT of a relationship, which one tells you what to do, how to solve things. Such as problems in the relationship, or if you like someone but you're not with them etc? If so, what does your heart -or head, tell you to do most of the time? And... Why do you follow it?
4 responses
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
it should always be the head before the heart. but more often than not, it's the heart that rules because we are but emotional beings. sometimes very contradictory as well. when we follow the head, we get hurt for denying what we feel, and when we follow what's logical, we get so stoned, we hurt other people. it should be both.. and the should be a consensus between these two.:)
@dragonfly242 (1060)
• Bahamas
23 Jul 08
Hi wolf!
I usaully follow my head, as my heart has led me to heartach far more often.
I use to do things soley on what my heart was saying, and that led me{and kept me} in some unhealty situations that my head tried to warn me about.
But as i matured i learned that my heart and head must lead my path, because not everything my heart desires is good for me,i have learned the hard way that my heart can be treacherous.
@Kemboi (341)
• Eldoret, Kenya
23 Jul 08
You need to ballance because both work together, there are some things you reason with yous head and there are some things you speak with your heart. Even in the christian Bible there is a place in the book of Jeremiah where it says the heart is the most deceitfull thing who can know? Again in the same Bible in the book of Proverbs it says as a man thinks so he is. So which of this is the right statement to apply with.
