Do you lie?Are you a good lier?

@lijiahui (187)
China
July 23, 2008 11:25am CST
Some people think that it is never right to tell lies,but some would argue that we lie when necessary,for example,the white lies. i used to think that lying when necessary is wisdom,but now i dont know which to decide:never tell lies,or tell lies when needed? By the way,i am not a good lier.Almost every time i lie,people would know.I dont know why,ai~~~~ Do you lie?In what situation do you lie? Are you a good lier? Thanks for sharing in advance.
2 responses
@jintao23 (50)
• China
23 Jul 08
Once upon a time,a friend of mine said to me,seriously,"To tell u the truth,I never lie."~ha!That's a lie indeed,and also a cold joke...Actually,I lie sometimes when necessary.U said almost everytime u lied,people would know.I don't buy it,cause maybe it's u who don't want to lie others,which makes ur lies easy to be blown out.What do u think?
@lijiahui (187)
• China
24 Jul 08
Maybe~~~each time i lie,i would feel uncomfortable,u know,with a fear of being noticed that i am just lying~~perhaps i am really not a good lier~~haha
• China
25 Jul 08
that's how a lie detecting machine works. u have symptoms when u lie.
@lijiahui (187)
• China
25 Jul 08
in that case i d better be a non-liar,hehe`~~~~~i dont want to get caught lying,haha~~~you know,it would be embarrassing and anoying~~~
@shinymood (405)
• China
25 Jul 08
Well,it all depends. There are well meaning lies like the white lies. You are trying to protect people from hash facts or events that might hurt them if they know the truth. We often tell a little white lie to preserve children's innocence and their imagination and creativity. it's different for a hard lie which is to protect oneself. well,i'm not suggesting that it's ok to lie. Relationship can be so complex and tricky. i'm not sure what you mean by "a good lier". sometimes a harmless white lie might be a good remedy a doctor would suggest.
@lijiahui (187)
• China
25 Jul 08
i am afraid this can be called one of the many dilemmas in our life,hehe~~~ but if we do what we think is right to do ,that should be ok,dont you think so ?hehe~~~