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myLot reputation of 71/100. heart4u (359)   ranked 2,223 out of 17,311 in relationships4 weeks ago

hi guys can you share how long have you been with your husband or wife or with your boyfriend or girlfriend? what can you advice so other can also get that long relationship with someone? me i had been in a relationship for almost 3 years and all i can say i could not ask for more and i wish that he will be the one i end up with because i feel like he was the one i want to be with for the rest of my life well the secret? just have an open communication and treat your partner not just only a partner but a your best friend also so guys comment please.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. honeydew82174 (1245)   ranked 347 out of 17,311 in relationships   4 weeks ago

happyI have been with the hubby for 4yrs now! Marriage can sure be a struggle every now and then but for the most part I would not have it any other way! He is my best friend!

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2. myLot reputation of 72/100. ngaspero (244)   ranked 3,497 out of 17,311 in relationships   4 weeks ago

so..these are the longest..1) 1 year 2) 1 and half year 3) 5 years 4) 7 years 5) and now since 8 years..and then a loto of a cuple of months...a cuple of days...or one night..

Nun

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3. stcajo1 (82)   ranked 2,143 out of 17,311 in relationships   4 weeks ago

Well another post I love because I get to talk about my wife. August 6th we will be celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary and before we were married we were together for 2 years. So i guess simple math puts us together for 22 years. There were tough times and good times but for the most part I have to say their were more great times other than anything else. As you my spouse is my best friend and life partner. Just a few simple things have made or union successful.

We never go to bed mad even if that means staying up till 4 in the morning to straighten things out.

We always tell each other that we love one another.

A simple hug can go a long ways.

Always ask each other how their day was and then just let them speak.

Never argue in front of the kids.

Even if you disagree about the way they are doing something with the kids you never tell them in front of the kids.

Communication is key.

I know there are a lot of people with great relaytionships out there but I always like to think of mine as the best. I found a jewel when I met my wife and life would just be miserable without her.

Dale


myLot reputation of 74/100. banunche (221)   ranked 4,803 out of 17,311 in relationships  4 weeks ago

nice marriage:) my parents have been together for 29 years now:)

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. rhane7315 (4153)   ranked 560 out of 17,311 in relationships   4 weeks ago

i had been for almost 2 years. i just wish that he wouldn't change the way he he is, well except for his some weird fetish lol i also wish that he would be the man that i'm gonna be with until we die

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5. myLot reputation of 82/100. hearts16 (223)   ranked 2,257 out of 17,311 in relationships   4 weeks ago

i have been in relationship with my bf from last 2 yrs...and its going great .ya had many fights but then we both have a very good understanding so those fights never came in between...
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6. myLot reputation of 95/100. intimate36 (770)   ranked 2,234 out of 17,311 in relationships   4 weeks ago

I,first met her in 1983, she was in a town away from my home town,we got engaged in 1987..and we married in 1989..between 1983 to 1989, we met only six to seven times,.. and in those days there were no mobiles ..no internet..communication was not so fast.... today almost 20 years have past... we are together.. with two children..one daughter 16 yrs and a son 12 yrs... we love each other very much...

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7. myLot reputation of 74/100. roshangeorgev (229)   ranked 3,220 out of 17,311 in relationships   4 weeks ago

as you can see from my profile photo,i am neither beautiful nor do i look sexy.i have tried to have an affair with a girl,and she avoided me.when a common friend of us asked her about this to her,she said that i am not beautiful and i am black in colour.i was very sad to hear that,and from that day onwards i understood that girls look for the external beauty and colour,and not the beauty of the mind.now i am trying my level best to avoid a chat or talk with girls.


myLot reputation of 91/100. RedFeather (289)   ranked 4,492 out of 17,311 in relationships  4 weeks ago

actually - you are a very attractive young man - and that may be what the girls see at first - but the "real" ones will take the time to get to know you and love you for what's inside, more than what's outside
you should not let the opinion of one silly shallow girl let you swear off women - be yourself - whether that be intelligent, witty, whatever - but be YOURSELF - the right one will come along...
most of all - keep smiling - at least they will wonder why!

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8. loveforyou (70)   4 weeks ago

2 years and counting im happy with him

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9. myLot reputation of 62/100. kayeshayne21 (611)   ranked 8,396 out of 17,311 in relationships   4 weeks ago

me and my hubby have been together for 7 years now! i already include the years that we were just lovers until we got married. im so happy with my hubby and I thank God i had met the love of my life.

 
10. myLot reputation of 94/100. michelled (156)   ranked 6,011 out of 17,311 in relationships   4 weeks ago

I dated my husband for 12 years before we got married 5 years ago we are going
on are 6 th year together, We had alot of challenges to over come before we
got married . We had a child together when i was 19 he was 20 . So we over came
alot financial hardships let me tell you alot, before we got married . I would have to say good communication is very helpfull in keeping a realatonship together,
and also i would have to say never try to change the person, love them for who they
are. Changing someone never works, It only causes problems. Also always be supportive of your partner, It shows your love and also that you belive in them.
Thats what helped us for so long and we are eachothers partner and bestfriend.

 
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