Are divorces that bad?

I have read that children are affected greatly by their parents divorcing for an average two years. They may feel that they are blamed and feel divided by the split in their family. A single parent may struggle with poor finances or they may be happy with a steady future away from fighting with their husband/wife. Children usually stay with their mum and their dad might see them once a week. I know one married couple that have split up and they have a 2 year old and a 7 year old. The 7 year old girl is very upset about her parents splitting up and the divorce hasn't happened yet. The dad lives in a bedsit and he is now quite depressed. A divorce without children is not a nice thing to happen but with children it can be even worse. Living with a partner can end at any time just like that but if a couple are married they have to see a solicitor and go to the bother of getting divorced.

Hello Lalchetian, Divorced is so hard to be accept as specially to the children, i'm from divorced parents and know how it felt to live seperated. I never see my father from my age 2.