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Staying in a relationship for the children's sake. email this discussion to a friend?

Daphers (80)   ranked 118 out of 594 in human3 months ago

I really don't agree with anyone staying in a relationship for their childrens sake.
If I child grows up seeing that mom and dad don't like each other as much as they should or they are arguring a lot, that is going to be worse for them in the long run. It will give them personal and social dilemas in their life. If there are two loving parents that are divorced and they are better people when they are not together, I think that would set a better example for the children. We each only have one (short) life so why waste it being unhappy for what we think is the sake of the children?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 24/100. wheresthefun (354)   ranked 338 out of 594 in human   3 months ago

i could not agree more with i stayed wit my ex for years when we where both unhappy. we been apart for years and now she is happy i,m happy and my kids are happy. if i know i would hav left sooner


Daphers (80)   ranked 118 out of 594 in human  3 months ago

It's good to know you are happy now though:)

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. learn2earn (1477)   ranked 339 out of 594 in human   3 months ago

We are entitled to our opinion but many times, if we expand our horizon, there are better views in which we can learn from. I still prefer parents staying together and make their marriage work instead of separating! Marriage is a commitment, it's not compatibility. The phrase "till death do us part" is not a joke. So if there are people who want to get married but cannot commit, better not get married and stay single for the rest of their life. Divorce for me is not an option!happy


Daphers (80)   ranked 118 out of 594 in human  3 months ago

If this is your opinion I don't think you should be labeling it a "better view", it is "your view". So if a wife said "till death do us part" to her husband who is now abusing her mentally or physically, after the marriage, she should stay with him and try to work out HIS insecurity problems? Just because they signed a piece of paper?

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. dextornap (331)   ranked 340 out of 594 in human   3 months ago

In my country women are so dependable on their husband. They rarely come out from home to work. In this case when they are not financially strong how can they come out? How to secure children life? I know after diverse government give order to father of the child to give monthly some amount to child. But that amount is too small to take care of a growing child. So however be the husband wife stay with him only to secure her children s future.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. myliezl0903 (1417)   3 months ago

yes i agree with you ., it is better off than to fight on something everyday.,.that scene will be on childs mind till he/she grows up.,and i want that to be happened to my children if ever.,everybody wants to have a complete and happy family, who doesn't want it.,but if my husband and i were fighting everyday then i guess we need to decide whether to continue it or not.,sad

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