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myLot reputation of 83/100. chrislotz (4640)   ranked 968 out of 7,570 in friend3 months ago


My daughter has gone out to an old friends house and I am worried about her. This so called friend is really mean at times and when my daughter used to live with her, for 8 months, she did some really horrible stuff to my daughter. She wouldn't let me stay with them when I came out here for a holiday last year and said the only way I could stay with them for a week is if I pay rent to her. She wanted to charge me $100 a night, just like it would cost me if I were to stay at a motel. So I didn't stay and my daughter moved out because of it and now I live here too, and we got a place together. When my daughter moved she threatened her that she was going to beat her up so my daughter had some people help her to move because she was scared of her.

Now she hasn't talked to this girl for about a year, till today. The girl emailed her and asked her to come over and hang out together and my daughter just left and went to her house. Now I sit here and worry that this girl is going to beat her up. Why did my daughter go, you might ask, I don't know. I asked her the same question, why would you want to go see her, and she said the girl is sorry for the way she treated her and wants to be friends again. I don't trust this girl and I asked my daughter to phone me and let me know she is okay, later. She, my daughter, thinks I am being over cautious, and I hope so, but how would my daughter know this girl is on the up and up and even if she is, why would she want to hang out with her?

Am I just being over protective or am I right in this? My daughter is 25 years old and I guess she can take care of herself but she is a little too trusting and it has gotten her in trouble before.

 
 
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atacamaval (1681) response was accepted on 8/17/2008.
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tags:  friends, daughter, worried
 
1. myLot reputation of 83/100. atacamaval (1681)   ranked 1,770 out of 7,570 in friend   3 months ago

What you have told us is an abusive relationship, no matter what age. But I feel there´s somthing more in yhis relationship than what you have just told us. Why would your daughter (25 years old) be in such need to be with someone who harrases her?
I know you can´t do anything. She´s a grown up and legally you can´t stop her. But I share your worry.
Does your daughter have other friends that can help her? Many times a mother´s advise is not what a young girl will accept.
Keep me posted. I hope everything turns out fine.Take care


myLot reputation of 83/100. chrislotz (4640)   ranked 968 out of 7,570 in friend  3 months ago


What is going on here, my tags aren't in this discussion either. I keep putting in tags but they are not posting.

Thanks for the advice about her having other friends tell her the same thing as me. I know they would probably tell her the same things as me. She is just a friendly person and gives everyone the benefit of doubt and now wants to make up with this girl, I think. I don;t understand it either, why she would want to be friends with her. I will keep you posted, if she calls me like I asked her to.


myLot reputation of 83/100. chrislotz (4640)   ranked 968 out of 7,570 in friend  3 months ago


My daughter has just called me that she is on her way home and that the visit went very well. She didn't stay too long as she wants to make sure this girl really wants to be her friend again so she is going to take it slow. I was real happy to hear from her, and that every thing is good so now I can quit worrying.


myLot reputation of 83/100. atacamaval (1681)   ranked 1,770 out of 7,570 in friend  3 months ago

I´m glad to know your worries are over. I just got back from a lunch at my daughter´s home and this is the first post I open. It´s a good omen!!!
Take carethumbup

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