insecure about my body and appearance now that i'm pregnant

@khithi17 (762)
Philippines
July 27, 2008 8:01am CST
i'm feeling so insecure right now because of my pregnancy. my body and appearnace changed a lot ever since i got pregnant and it's not really a good change for me. i don't feel pretty anymore unlike before and when my hubby is looking at me i'm feeling shy and i tell him not to look. i don't feel comfortable when he's looking at me now that i know i'm fat and not so pretty. but i don't have any problem with me being pregnant, it's just that i'm not used to seeing myself like this. i mean fat and getting bigger each day. i look like my mom now... not that she's not pretty, but she looks like a mom and i don't want to look like my mom who looks like a mom. do you get me? i just want to share this maybe this way i'll feel a little better... thanks for reading... God Bless.
3 responses
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
28 Jul 08
I think you have to be proud now a days that you are being pregnant and do not think so much of your looked as of the moment every woman would passed on that but still handle to be sexy after delivering the baby, It is not a reason that after delivering a baby you could not be sexy again........
@momathome (474)
• Canada
27 Jul 08
Your body is changing for a reason. And i'm sure your hubby is looking at how much more beautiful you look. And your going to be a mom so you will look like a mom no matter what. And once the baby is here you will be able to lose any weight and get you body back into shape. It will never be the same way again but who knows maybe your body will be better. Once you have your baby in your arms the last thing you will think about is how you look. Your beautiful and there is no greater feeling than having a baby grow inside you. Might not make you so happy to see what your body is doing but just remember it's doing it for a very good reason. Goodluck and enjoy your little one!!
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 08
Hey, don't worry. Reese Witherspoon still look as gorgeous as she used to be after she got a baby. And if it is you who's in the picture of the profile, believe me you wouldn't look bad even you look like a mom. And one thing, you should be proud of being mom, I want to be a mom, but i haven't got my chance yet. And by the way, congratulation of your pregnancy, I hope you and your baby are healthy :)