Is it right to leave country and work in other only money
By Ganesh44
@Ganesh44 (5547)
India
July 28, 2008 11:05pm CST
Hey I m in India people ask me to leave India often and earn
better outside but I dont feel just for money I should leave my
parents and mother land
I m stuck
What should do what will be long term effect which country to go to
which is best country should i go at all ?
WOuld it happen that I loose health and happiness there and get only money
Pls help
Thanku
2 responses
@karagala (447)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
You know we, Filipinos have similar dilemmas too. I really don't know what part of the system here is wrong but most of the good products of the university aim to work outside of the country because of better pay there and perhaps better quality of living and better peace and order situation. We are always left with the not so good people here. There is this very good math teacher in one university here. He teaches well but he chooses to teach not to his fellowmen because he wants a higher pay. A topnotch nurse chooses to care the patients of the first-world countries rather than her fellowmen because there's better pay for nurses outside than here in her country. And then comes the family problems or the feeling of being lonely living not in your country. A son tends to rebel because he lacked motherly love because his mother is working outside of the country.
It really depends on your priorities. If you're in for the money, go work outside of the country but if you feel for your family then don't. If you're earning for the family go and work outside of the country, save your earnings, and go back home soon before your family feels they're not loved by you.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
29 Jul 08
But its really tragic situation I need to choose between money and Family (Friends,Relatives)...both r equally important ...u can not go without money u cant live without ur parents....its Like asking ....choose between water and food lol...and I cant stop drinking water and on the other hand I cant stop taking food also...
Yes Meanwhile ...I m praying to GOD also ....I have plans to go to Church also to ask Jesus ...to pls come down from heavens and help me...with this situation....or I will ask GOD.....if he has decided me to be handcuffed than Jesus shud give me some magical power to produce money.....But I m not sure Y GOD put me in such situation.....Food or water ....water or food..... I keep asking GOD what if u were in place....???
Thanku
Ganesh !!!
@karagala (447)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
If you're Christian like I am, ask for God's guidance that whatever decision you've chosen, you won't regret later. You know God knows best. He was there since and he will be here until the end of time so he must know the consequences of whatever decisions we make.
Surrender that delemma to Him and say, Lord, this is beyond my abilities. Because you know what's best, lead he way for me. I trust that you will not permit any harm on me so thy will be done.
I will pray for you too that you will be enlightened.
@nilouette (632)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
Most leave their own countries and work in others because of financial difficulties. I'm from the Philippines and most of the Professional workers here go abroad because of lack of job opportunities here.


